been with her 4 months and we've done nothing but kiss... i dont mind but i would like to experiment a bit...;)
2007-04-05 02:59:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
act like u re no longer interested and she ll come around
2007-04-05 03:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by joddie 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Romance her take her out for a lovely meal and a walk afterwards somewhere nice. Before you go out put some roses on the bed (obviously don't let her see them) and lay some on the floor. Once you get back excuse yourself and light some candles all round the room (being careful) and then tell her you want to show her something cover her eyes and lead her to the room gently kiss her neck when she opens her eyes.
Find out soemthing she really like (item or something not food) and have it in the middle of the bed. turn her round so she is facing you tell her how much you love her (whilst loking into her eyes) and magic should happen.
If you can't be bothered to romance her then talk about it but romance is always good!
2007-04-05 10:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by Missbutterfly:-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thus us tricky. Try telling her how you feel. Let her know that you are really interested in her and you want to experiment with different things. To me, openness and honesty is the best in these stages. You both are going through the same things. And for all you know, she may be feeling the same way. Whatever you do, try not to pressure her. It seems like 4 months is a long time, but it's really not...
2007-04-05 10:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by ljoc421 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may seem a long time for you but 4 months is a very short time to expect a girl to get close to you in that way. The fact that you describe this deeper intimacy as "doing stuff" suggests that you, yourself, are not mature enough to handle a sexual relationship. This is probably not what you want to hear but .. sorry .. it is the truth. Chill out, man, and get to know your girl, respecting who she is.
2007-04-05 10:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by square_dotzz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it about her not you. there is a comfort she needs to have and absolute trust that you will be there no matter what. before she gives you that intimate part of herself. To get "inside" of her and who she is isn't like robbing a bank, where you run in get the goods and run out... I can tell you that she is a real treasure just by the fact that she values herself enough not to give herself to a "do-stuff" guy in only 4 months. it is a lifetime proses into someones soul. once she KNOWS you are there for that journey you will have more than you ever imagined was there.
2007-04-05 10:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by Joel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you supposedly "love" and "respect" this girl, you will take it slow because true love waits for anything.
Lust wants to hurry up and move forward and get to the nookie (or near-nookie).
2007-04-05 10:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her about how she feels about taking your relationship further. Don't pressure her though. If she feels the same way about you, it will come naturally.
2007-04-05 10:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by Chiquita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will happen, mine went a month before we did anything and now she's after me all the time to makeout.
2007-04-05 10:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by Backhoe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow Hun. She just trying to figure out what type of person you are first
2007-04-05 10:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her about it, if youre at the right AGE!!! just say, where do you think our relationship is headed, and do anything shes comfortable doing, dont try to pressure her!!! my bf never trys to pressure me, he accepts when i say no, an does so reassuringly, and because hes so understanding, i want to do more with him and for him!
2007-04-05 10:03:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont respect her then ------ 4 months isnt that long of a time
2007-04-05 10:03:02 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Nikki♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋