i like this guy ALOT but...?

Question

theres this guy that i like and i told him that but he just looked at me and said that he doesn't like me like that. but i think its just because he hasn't had a gf b4. i think somewhere he might like me but please help me! what should i do?

Answer 1

ask him to do things with you..even tell him(like "come do (this) with me today", tonight, etc) homework, basketball, pass the football, anything at all. don't tell him you like him, he will figure it out and he will def let you know when he starts to like you in "that way" too ...if he doesn't, then you have a guy friend to hang out with till more guys come around ..and they will no doubt..

Answer 2

Well first of all, you should not only tell him that you like him but also tell exactly how you feel. It might actually help if you use the right words.I have a problem with love life too.And you know what I did, I wrote the boy I like a love letter and you know how boys are always shy, and thats how the boy is but he still gives me signs that he likes me but I am not sure. He always looks at me in a special way that he doesn't look at anybody else. And there is just something about his eyes when he looks at me, It's just so special.And another thing you should do is be a little flirty and get to know the guy better o.k.!!
Bye,
Ulyana Yermilova

Answer 3

For future reference here's a big mistake you made.

1. Telling him you liked him.

This is a big mistake. Why? Because a guy wants a girl that he thinks he can never get, and by you saying you liked him you totally blew yourself out of the water. Now, there's a few things you can do.

1. Be nonchalant. Frontin' is a good way to get him to notice you again, because chances are, he's avoiding you almost completely right now. But regardless whether he said he's not interested. You have crossed his mind.
2. Be nice, even if he brushed you off, that's fine. Don't lose yourself or lose confidence. He'll lose even more interest if you are all mean and stuck up just because he brushed you off. If he says Hi to you in school, just say Hi back and walk along.
3. Don't aim so high as to make yourself want to be his girlfriend. Why? Because you will confuse yourself and end up hurting yourself if it doesnt happen. Aim to be just his friend
and you never know, things might just end up going the right way for u.

Answer 4

If he said he doesn't like you "like that," chances are he is being perfectly honest. True, he may not be ready for a gf, and he may truly care about you. But he is not ready for a gf, otherwise he would have given you at least some sign that there could be a future between the two of you.

Answer 5

You sound young. When a guy isn't into a girl it's cuz he's not ready for that type of thing. He may never like you, so don't worry about it. Don't worry abuot this boy, find another that makes you happy. Good Luck!

Answer 6

Go on to someone else if he is interested he will suddenly say oh no i am losing my chance and he may come to you. If he does not like you in the manner than it is best to move on or you will just smother and irritate him to the point where he really dislikes you.

Answer 7

Stand back! Don t be pushy with this idea. He may not like u. Just be yourself have fun just hanging together.In time he may start to fancy u.

Answer 8

Dont seem desperate, ignore him. Or just move on. The ignoring trick usually works.

Answer 9

He said he doesn't like you like that, he doesn't like you like that. A boy who has never had a girlfriend is not going to pass up a chance for one.

Answer 10

"I think somewhere he might like me" What exactly do you mean? Like if he were living on the Moon, he might like you? Get over it, he's not into you darlin.