Well i broke up with him last Monday, he was like about to cry cuz everyone said he was in love with me like LOVE. but i stopped liking him. He made a note and wrote f u and wrote all the thing he hates about me and he even told ppl that he broke up with me... So anyway He always makes fun of me when his friends are around and then when we are sitting next to each other (sometimes... not on purpose) he is nice.. he told his best friend he still likes me... im soo confused... a little advice?
2007-04-05 02:35:40 · 12 answers · asked by *Party_girl* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds as if his ego was wounded and he is not taking the rejection he feels when you broke up with him. His pain has turned to anger and so he wants to hurt you back and to also his pride was hurt and he is trying to regain it in front of his friends by calling you names. To show them he does not care. He sounds young and immature and is handling the break up not so well. Maybe if you understood that his behaviour is because he is in pain, this will help you to deal with it in a more calm way. Try your best to avoid him and hopefully he will begin to get over this. Best of luck to you!
2007-04-05 02:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get sucked into the drama. He has issues that only he can resolve. It's better to take the high ground and ignore what's taking place. He's showing his own immaturity and lack of character. Whatever you do is not going to be enough for this guy anyway. Put some distance between you, keep it civil when you do have to encounter him, and only make neutral comments to others when necessary (e.g. he seems to be a nice person, I wish him only good things, it just didn't work out between us but that doesn't mean I don't think well of him, etc.). Cover yourself, keep your self respect, and stick to your guns. It sounds like a wise choice to walk away from him. He sounds like an emotional wreck with a lot of growing to do. Let him do that on his own.
2007-04-05 09:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE is putting up a front to pretend he is not hurt and he was the one who let you go. No guy or girl wants to say I got dumped, most the time they say we broke up. He is trying to look like a "man" in front of his buddies. If he is making fun of you then what else would he tell his pals? Forget about him he obviously does not respect you enough to tell the truth so move on to someone else and he will regret his actions in the future. Best wishes to you.
2007-04-05 09:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His ego has been hurt and he is trying to do the "man Thing" and pretend it doesn't hurt. try n ignore his nasty comments he says in front of his mates.
When he is being nice to u when ur alone ask him y he does this. But make sure he doesn't make u feel sorry for him n get back with him.
2007-04-05 09:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by redlex261 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you still care about him if you're concerned like this. He still wants you, but it you don't want him close at the moment, so this is his way to compensate. For him to get over you, he has obviously made a point to list all the thiings that he hates about you (I did it too, but I did it because I didn't want to fall for her), he makes fun of you in front of his friends because he doesn't want to look weak, duh! He told his best friend he still cares because that's the truth, and his best friend is one of the few people he can confide in.
Hope this helps.
2007-04-05 09:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just the male EGO they don't like to be huurt and his way of getting some of that ego back is to treat you badly in front of his mates and try and make himself look good (although it doesn't) just don't rise to it he will get bored soon enough.
You have done nothing wrong.
2007-04-05 09:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by Missbutterfly:-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ the 2nd answer confront him in front of his friends.....
if youre in HS,guys act like idiots cuz theyre afraid of looking bad in front of friends.
2007-04-05 09:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You sound pretty young, maybe he's embarrased or trying to make himself look good in front of his friends.
2007-04-05 09:43:46 · answer #8 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him, ignore him completely and see how he likes it. You don't deserve to be treated that way, if he can't be mature about it, then you don't even need to acknowledge him.
I know it'll be hard, but you just need to focus on something other than him, don't let him see that it gets to you. Just be strong, and you'll be fine.
2007-04-05 09:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's saving face in front of his friends by putting you down.
2007-04-05 09:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋