ok, so me and my bf have been together for 5 months. we r best friends and we took it really slow. it was just holding hands up to last month. now we are cuddling and walking hand in hand and hand round waist and stuff, and a two weeks ago, we kissed. i was happy, cuz i wanted to for a really really long time, and everything. but it was a 0.000000001 second kiss. what do i do to show him i want an actual kiss? and how do i start one? is the technique we r using wrong? we just normally hug, and then peck on the lips. i dont know how to kiss him! AAAHH ! this is a first for both of us, and im not sure what to do. like i sooo want to kiss him. just dont know what to do. we are pretty comfortable around each other, but its just this one thing that bugs me. i keep on reading about keeping kissing longer, and then biting his lower lips, but im too nervous. why dusnt he make the 1st move? shud i just slam him against a locker and kiss him?? help!!
2007-04-05
11:39:02
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im 16. old enough for this stuff... rite? im not gonna do anything stupid. i trust him, and know he wont do anything im not comfortable with...
and i was kidding about slamming him against a locker... i want a long kiss. an actualy kiss. like not bump faces and move away! :)
2007-04-05
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let him make the 1st move,,thats the best part,,the waiting and wishing,the anticipation of it all
2007-04-05 11:44:05
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answered by igottadrive2001 5
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Maybe he's just a really shy kisser. I'm an extremely shy kisser and first real kisses always scare the C R A P out of me. I hate them, typically I wait for the guy to make the move, and sometimes when he does I can't but help but pull away. He might be similar. It sounds like your going to have to be the one to make the first move, but you can do it in a more subtle way if you want. Kisses on the cheek, forehead, neck are good starting points. You say you guys give quick pecks, well go for another one! multiple pecks often turn into something more. You can try kissing him at the nape of his neck towards the back, the slowly head up towards his neck, then his cheek, and by now he should get the hint but if he still hasnt just plant one on him and lightly suck on his bottom lip. if he doesn't respond or its delayed just throw him that sexy look. He's probably thinking what just happened... ok... now what do I do... lol and if this fails just say damnit why dont u kiss me!
Good luck girl. ones you break through the intial barrier everything will be ok
2007-04-05 18:55:55
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answered by Anonymous
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lol I think the locker thing was pretty funny, sure he wouldn't mind.
FYI I'm 16 too and had my 1st kiss around the time when i 1st turned it.
well just use your body language. don't do the hug and kiss thing because those are almost always good bye/ hello quick pecks. It just goes hand in hand so maybe that's why you just keep getting the pecks. One day when you two are cuddling lets say just look into his eyes and then his lips, then return the gaze to his eyes. he should be getting the hint you want something and finally make the 1st move. Or he might return what you did to him, to you. Sort of as an invitation for you to make the 1st move or make it together
let's say the eye/lips gaze doesnt work or If he's too .. intimidated to make the move. You can cutely just flirt around and rub your nose on his, then land a cute peck. at this stage you can gently hold his cheek and repeat the peck slower as many times as you want until you two decided to make it more intimate and make it a french kiss
happy kissing
2007-04-05 18:49:57
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answered by La Princesa 6
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OMG - this is almost the eact situation i was in until last week - i thought i was the only one who wnted to do longer kissing - turns out i wasn't (and i bet you aren't either) kiss him on the cheek - chances are things will lead on from there and when you do kiss on the lips have your arms round his neck and just don't pull away!!
good luck i'm sure it will be even better than the first!! x
2007-04-05 18:43:43
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answered by ♪ Jackielynn 3
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Well, lean in adn if he starts to lean in then u can kiss him. If he doesnt then just back away. Just start like lip tuching and u know. And then just stick ur tongue out a bit till it touches his lips. If he gets the hint he will open up and u can kind of play with each other tongues. Have fun, and its not as hard as u think its gunna be. It just happens
2007-04-05 18:44:56
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answered by Anonymous
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omg 16 your old enough. You should of made a move on you or something like a real kiss. It will come dont wry.
2007-04-05 18:43:42
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answered by Lisa F 1
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Kissing 911 has better answers
2007-04-05 18:42:32
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answered by Anonymous
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lol wow.... i'd honestly slam him up against the locker but im impatient...... maybe he's nervous and thinks you don't want to, and you should ask him (in a nice way). or maybe he thinks he'd be a bad kisser. but if i were you, i would start. its the 21st century!!
2007-04-05 18:45:57
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answered by cains6@sbcglobal.net 2
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the next time he kisses you, try to make it last longer. don't force him into a longer kiss.. he is being a little shy ...and nervous..
2007-04-05 18:44:10
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answered by StarShine G 7
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just get it done mam!!!!!!!!!!!your funny this has been what i needed all day hahahhaha just have fun with it but just do it no madder how hard it is but when it is done u will just wanna do it again....hahhahha have fun with it though....blw it is cool how u have been taking it slow cause i have like no patients but ol well.....peace
2007-04-05 18:48:01
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answered by Anonymous
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