ok so this guy dumped me and the next day was dating someone else, but a week later he saw me and we had sex, he told her about it and she was upset but forgave him telling him if it happened again it was over, but its happened like 5 times since then as well they've been dating for a month now and every time I see him we have sex, I feel guilty and think I should tell her I don't want to b/c I want him back because he would never want me back if I told her I know that, I feel guilty though because I met her and we talked and she is worried about getting hurt, he's cheated beofre, once on one of his ex's and once on me so theres defintly a pattern, I know I should stop sleeping with him but I still love him and want something with him as pathetic as that sounds. I know if I told her it would end between him and I for good becasue he would hate me, but I also don't wnat to tell her and lose him as a friend and her forgive him and have to suffer for no reason what should I do?
2007-04-05 12:06:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her
2007-04-05 12:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be selfish if you dont like to hurt the girl, then stop seeing his bf. you know the guy is just using you, come on used your head. ok granted you love him but have mercy on yourself too.. what if now or near future you really meet the right guy for you, are you not feel guilty because you have given yourself to a stupid and nonsense ex-bf of yours... wake up girl there are more worth guy outhere. good luck
2007-04-05 12:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by taurust_girl27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 07:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleeping with a guy who has a girlfriend makes you seem very cheap. I wouldn't tell her...Cuz she'll obviously just forgive him. She'll be mad at you. Don't say anything...you've done enough. Look for your own boyfriend.
2007-04-05 12:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right it does sound pathetic.
You should tell her, that way it screws up both relationships (for lack of a better term). She will dump him and he will dump you (saving you from yourself).
2007-04-05 12:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first stop having sex with him and quit acting like a kid and get the courage to tell her.
2007-04-05 12:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by Morgan Miller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depend on your relation with both ... if you tell her you lost both if you don't you lost her only ... now it's your choice
2007-04-05 12:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by amirat7oby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
you should let him
2007-04-05 12:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by Antwaan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋