I have a friend, and that is all he is, a friend. But we have casual sexual meetings. I my self know it is moraly wrong and alot of people frown on it I just wanna hear some one elses oppion. I mean there is no way in hell in my eyes we will ever be more than friends but we are best friends. Talked every night. we have alot in comman like we both like to play sports and camp and fish and all that. Yet we feel nothing emotional. Well atleast I dont. Is this normal. Resontly he has stoped talking to me like he used to.and he has been more distant but when he talks there is a softer side to him anymore. Alot of people dont like him cause it seems all he cares about is sex, and for the most part they are right, but none of them took the time to get to know him. Even his brother who lives with him dislikes him. I feel bad for him and i wanna help him but I dont love him.
2007-04-05 11:55:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you don't mind being used for sex, why should anyone else. It's your choice, more power to you. Wish there were more women just like you.
However from what you write, I don't think you are being honest with yourself. Seems you do have feelings and are having sex with him partly out of pitty (not that he cares).
There is nothing wrong with having a bed buddy, but keep in mind that it rarely stays that way. Sex is a very powerful thing and changes relationships. This is why married couples need to have a good sex life, more than kids it bonds them together.
2007-04-05 12:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those types of relationships seldom last very long as what happens is that one of the pair usually meets someone whom they care for a little more than the "booty" partner! When this happens feelings get mixed up and blah blah blah. Don't get me wrong though as there have been affairs that go on for a very long time without notice but the booty call scene usually ends within a few years.
Have a hot chocolaty day!!!!
2007-04-05 12:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally feel like it's wrong because sex isn't just a game. It's suppose to shared by two people that care about each other, not just because they're horny and don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Some people think it's okay but I don't think sex was meant for that, and a booty call is just dangerous in my opinion I mean if he's doing it with you what's stopping him from doing it with another female, which could lead to pregnancy and even worse an STD. A booty call is meant for irresponsible people to me.
2007-04-05 12:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by cosmetologistbeauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What usually happens is that one person starts to feel something for the other. Or, one person finds someone that they really want to be with and the other person is left out in the cold. Of course, there is always the risk of pregnancy.
On the other hand, if the relationship is exclusive, you will at least know that you aren't sleeping with 30 other men/women.
2007-04-05 12:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well quite honestly, i dont think anything is wrong with a bootycall!!! im alll for them. if you can handle having a sexual relationship with another person without the emotional baggage and non-loyalty like feelings, then theres nothing wrong with it! sure, people frown on it, but if it makes you happy whats the problem? just enjoy and dont listen to what other people think :)
2007-04-05 12:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by sophia bush 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i dont see whats wrong with booty calls if you dont see nothin bad and the other person doesnt see nothing bad then thats something between you and the other person nt anyone else so who cares what they think thats your personal business
2007-04-05 11:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by Ms_Apple_Bttmz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could interfere with your forming a good long term relationship
leading to marriage...
Of course, if you have no interest in getting married then
there would be no problem...
2007-04-05 11:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with as long as you both agree that it's only that. You Go Girl!!!
2007-04-05 11:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by camry415 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sexual stuff should be done with someone you love..its his fault no one likes him..dont do things with him bc u feel bad for him!!!!!
2007-04-05 12:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all fine till one of you has feelings or gets an actual BF or GF
2007-04-05 11:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋