Family & Relationships - 5 April 2007

k..so my GF is really insecure because she just got out of her first long term relationship (1yr) and it ended because her BF cheated on her. We are seniors in high school...now we've been going out for 5 months and at the end of the month I have to go to Florida for a school competition. Now, I know she doesnt rly want me to go because she's scared I might cheat on her. I see where she is coming from..."it happened once, why wont it happen again"...im willing to spend my life proving that statement wrong...newaz now to the point...i went last yr and i know there is a prom for everyone going..n im just thinking of the part when they play the slow songs at the prom!!! last yr i just danced with some friends from my school that went...I sorta think my GF would get annoyed if I told her i danced with someone when i come back...is it appropriate to dance with someone from my school or someone else that is there??? or am i supposed to sit down n not dance during these times??

2007-04-05 14:00:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 13:59:20 · 1 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to give all of me to my wife. If I have sex with another girl before her then I'm afraid I'll remember her. I want to think of my spouse when I think of my first.

I hope she can do the same!

So for you who had sex with other people before your spouse...do you remember them?

2007-04-05 13:56:27 · 25 answers · asked by varsfootball44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it normal for men to become less romantic as a relationship progresses passed the "wooing" stage?

2007-04-05 13:55:22 · 15 answers · asked by Marry M 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so i want my bridal party to sit at the head table with me and my soon to by hubby, but where would the bridal party's dates sit? i wouldnt want them to sit alone at a table where they dont know anyone, but i also dont want 20 people at the head table.. what are my options!!!

2007-04-05 13:53:58 · 10 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Weddings

why is it such a big deal to pass gas?i do it all the time!

2007-04-05 13:49:59 · 12 answers · asked by Corey M 2 in Family

I dated this guy for about a year. suddenly he just breaks up with me for reasons that i partly dont even understand. but anyways he basically destroyed my life. within the next 2 weeks he started dating this other girl. i still have 4th period with him and we dont really talk at all, but we sit next to each other. i was so hurt that he did this to me. i dont know whether to be mad at him, or try to just move on because i still love him so much. how should i act around him 4th period to get some peace in my life? please help...thank you :)

2007-04-05 13:49:22 · 12 answers · asked by bchs_softball_player 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a relationship with a man for 8 years and he had kicked me out of the house recently. Well now he tells me he wants me to be away from him another week and then come back to the house so we can sit down and talk. Now he says if he decides on us there would be major changes on him as well as myself. I do not need to make changes-- he does.I was the one that got heart broken and did everything I could to make a relationship. And how I only heard those three words every now and then. Got any suggestions on how I should handle this?

2007-04-05 13:48:31 · 3 answers · asked by Debra H 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

For example, he sits down and the bottom of his pants rise up enough to see some sheer black nylons.

2007-04-05 13:47:25 · 12 answers · asked by triestobekind 1 in Singles & Dating

If a guy treats one specific girl a certain way, usually rudely, when they are together with other people, can it mean that he likes her but is too afraid to admit? Does it just mean that something about the girl makes him nervous?

2007-04-05 13:46:57 · 19 answers · asked by . 5 in Singles & Dating

my 3.5 year relationship ended when she told me she was seeing someone else nov.26....now 3 months later she left him and we are going out again but she tells me she wants to take it slow...also she wants to keep him as a friend .she tells me he calls her every now and then to see hows shes doing...she also says she wants to be friends with him..can i trust her?

2007-04-05 13:45:29 · 7 answers · asked by David 1 in Singles & Dating

When we kiss it's not all that passionate. How can I make it more passionate?

2007-04-05 13:45:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 13:44:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok I just found out my husband has had sex with my mom and sister when we were having a few problems. The way I found out is he video taped the threesome. I moved out through my ring and his head HARD and said this is it. I can't take it anymore. And Walked out. Now all he keeps doing is tracking me down. At hotels at friends. I tried a court order it won't work. He knows the police to well. I am affraid of what he might do next.

2007-04-05 13:42:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im not in love with my boyfriend anymore, before i met my boyfriend i fell in love with someone who i knew couldnt date me,we were like soul mates so i kept my feelings to myself in case it changed our friendship. He got a girlfriend and when i was around both of them i felt so awkward that i stopped being his friend although he continued to call and mail me. I met another man and dated him and began to fall in love with him,but i still love my male friend. Im so confused. Now my boyfriend keeps saying he loves me but i cant say it back. My male friend was so close, i cant get him out of my head and i feel guilty for not loving me boyfriend but i cant call quits as i go through times of loving/hating him....he has a jekle and hyde personality,ignoring me then smuthering me

2007-04-05 13:41:53 · 18 answers · asked by janeysmithster 2 in Singles & Dating

Do they not realize the pain and hurt that their actions will cause?

2007-04-05 13:41:18 · 13 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i really need help, it's a long story,read it here,
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you may help me for the sake of humanity, not for gathering points.
if i found any other solution rather than yahoo answers i wouldn't have posted my problem here.
i will be glad if u help me.
thank u.

2007-04-05 13:40:17 · 4 answers · asked by Hamdi 2007 2 in Family

We haven't been dating that long but we've never talked about that subject at all. When should we and what all should you say and not say based on your experience??

2007-04-05 13:36:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in May and I wanted to include a ceremony with unity candles. However, I don't want tradition "white/ivory" candles. My colors are black and red. Is it ok to use different color candles? I would love to use a 1 black candle and 2 red. Is that allowed? Would that change the meaning of a unity candle?

2007-04-05 13:36:30 · 7 answers · asked by Aredhel 1 in Weddings

i am 23 my husband 30 he has two kids (12&3). the 12 yr old lives w us the 3yr old lives w his mom i want kids but i also want a life and to look sexy for a long time. my husband had a vasectomy but will reverse it if i want him to no problem but sometimes i feel torn and i know he does to. we both love kids but we also want to travel and not be broke for ever.(he hasnt been able to leave state for 10yrs & pretty soon he will) i just dont want to have that void forever but i also want a happy marriage not bogged down. what do you think id love to hear some opinions

2007-04-05 13:32:40 · 4 answers · asked by hottiewife06 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Iam currently up to date in my rent but can only afford to pay $75 towards April rent. Im afraid my landlord will be upset and evict me. How long will I have to move if he does evict me? I have one child and am very concerned! Will I have just 3 days? Or will I get atleast 30 days? Please any advice u may have will make me feel soooo much better! Thank u

2007-04-05 13:31:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She says they are trying to spray her with water, indoors no less, she insists that they stop, and go outside. more pounding, Two boys, 10 and 8, they continue pounding, I go to door, open it, the 10 yr is holding a tub of half melted ice cream ready to pitch it. I bang the ice cream down, half a slap to head, and tell him to go, tell the other to go. What to do.

2007-04-05 13:24:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend & I are serious & been dating over a year.

My family (mom, stepdad, brother) all get along with me & are really great people but very much dislike police because of bad situations over the years in Pierce County, Washington (Tacoma as you have seen our crazyasses on the news many of times) - none of which are my family's fault. I can tell you they are due to meth heads, teenagers stealing cars, my real dad came once and proceeded to steal our property & I was home alone and was afraid he would come inside the house (the cops called me a liar). anyway just trust me we have been f'd with & lied to by the cops many of times. My brother went to jail for a day due to a girl & cop lying & then she admitted she lied & dropped charges after costing us $$. My stepdad was a cop for seattle & got out due to corruption.

Boyfriend is now a cop for a small city for 9 mos. He is starting to get cocky & makes comments.

So familly flips him **** & they argue. My BF is rude too.

2007-04-05 13:21:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

the male lives alone (has no wife)
Don't you think there is something wrong with her mother to say it's ok? The 11 year old lives with the 55 year old man
alone!

2007-04-05 13:20:14 · 21 answers · asked by blueberrylady 2 in Friends

Outside of physical charcteristics what traits or charcteristics do women desire in a man. What turns you on ladies ? I really want to know. Help me be a better man .And is physical charcteristics more important? Please only reply if you are between 21 and 40

2007-04-05 13:17:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just started working at thing new job about a 2 1/2 weeks ago and theres this guy i work with and i really really like him but i dont know how to ask him out or give him my number so please help!!!

2007-04-05 13:16:35 · 15 answers · asked by babygirl18_4sho 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm ItaloAmerican is 9 years now I'm here in US
I love the country but I have to say the people
are so stupid sometime like today I was in my car
wait for a pedestrian end to cross the street
this asshole he look me and begin to say
"wtf are you looking?!!" with a tipical idiot attitude
now I was waiting for him where I supposte to look?

but is not over yet

he drop the bag and he was ready to fight
so I reply to him" FU!!! " and then I walk aways
because my wife she was yelling on me to let go
I know not all Americans are idiots like this guy
but I have to many similar case in this 9 years
and before somebody tell me to go back where
I come from let me tell you I'm proud to be American
and even I was not born in this beautiful country
you do not have the right to say so!!
however because I'm not used to deal with this bad attitude
I thinking to move out from this country I like to know
if somebody here have the same feeling and how
you deal with this problem?

2007-04-05 13:11:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I posted a question about this same topic before, but i didn't explain it clearly enough.

I told this guy i like him, and he said that he likes me too. We've been on 2 dates, and they went very well. We talk all the time, on the internet and on the phone, and we hold hands while together. The problem is, I want our relationship to be "official" and for him to ask me to be his girlfriend. I know he's a shy guy, so would it be too forward to say "are we going out now?"
If you think it's too forward, what do you think I should say instead?

2007-04-05 13:04:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is my best friends boyfriend, and he had a lot of trama in his relationship with his ex, and he lives 5 hours away from his son. he hasnt seen him he says in a couple years. He is telling my friend he doesnt want to see him anymore, and he wants to start a new life with her. I am worried for her, because she seems to be falling for this guy. He seems really nice otherwise, but this issue with his son is worrying me. Do you guys think i have anything to be worried about. He does pay child support.

2007-04-05 13:03:22 · 6 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just started a part time job, just enough to make some extra cash to save for Disney World and then after that for fun money so we are not so broke to be able to save. (I don't tell my coworkers that though)
Anyway I go to college and have only 2 more yrs left. My problem is that I have a really excellent vocabulary. I feel like my vocab tends to allienate me at the new job.
Thank you!

2007-04-05 13:01:07 · 19 answers · asked by LUCY 4 in Other - Family & Relationships