what do women want ...REALLY?

Question

Outside of physical charcteristics what traits or charcteristics do women desire in a man. What turns you on ladies ? I really want to know. Help me be a better man .And is physical charcteristics more important? Please only reply if you are between 21 and 40

Answer 1

Just be urself and don't act to be all perfect
hang out with her a lot or talk to her a lot
give her stuff

Answer 2

I'm in my thirties.I have been totally infatuated by a guy that I met many years ago. And I am sure that it's all in his eyes. Since, I never had a real full on relationship with him, but meet him every so often over the past 7 years, his physique changes every time I see him.Since he plays sport in the Summer but not in the winter. Although, I would generally be more into the more fit looking guy, this particular guy seems more attractive to me when he is less toned. So, I think looks are just specific to certain people. But I do think, one can see something different in each persons eye, and I believe that's the key. It's as though with certain people you can see right into the soul.

Answer 3

It's not all about looks, it's about the person inside. Personality, charm, humor. Be yourself. If you act like someone else then you aren't giving a woman YOU. Your giving her what you think she wants. Then later on you will be unhappy because you weren't you and you have to keep up with the image you've put off as you. Honey I'm sure you are just fine. The right one is out there, it just takes time. I'm sure your already a wonderful person, as a matter of fact you wouldn't have asked this question if you were really a jerk or a guy no one would want. You are fine, and you don't have to change.

Answer 4

EVERYTHING!!!!!!!! All kidding a side loyalty security respect romance sweet surprises an industrious man who is wise educated cautious and makes good choices no excessive use of any drugs or alcohol good manners no sports fanatics to be touched (cuddle) and listen to every word I say with the utmost interest. Oh and I love Innocent flirting.

Answer 5

You're personality is what makes you sexy. Just be yourself and find someone that likes you for who you are. Be a gentleman, be respectful, most of all be yourself! Women desire a man that they can relax with and still feel beautiful and important.
Good luck!

Answer 6

Honesty, Intelligence, Loyalty, Sense of Humor, Generosity, Protection & Love...good hygene..doesn't compromise his beliefs, for convienence....looks are more important when you are younger in your teens and twenties.....but good looks dont hurt...
If i were gonna build a man he would have all of these traits...
...most of all he has to be built well below the belt...and able to perform great in bed.
i think that covers most of it.

Answer 7

I like a man to LISTEN to me. I don't mean obey... I mean to actually listen to what I'm saying in a conversation. I find it very arousing when he makes eye contact and responds intelligently.

Guys... we can tell when you aren't listening, or pretending, or patronizing us while you're really only thinking of what YOU want to say next. That's a real turn-off.

That's one reason why I sometimes prefer grrls as companions/partners. There's no need to feel I have to prove my credibility.

Take this as a hint, guys! I love you... but please get a clue in this area!

;-)

Answer 8

Honestly, I like a guy that is fun and entertaining. Intelligent with interesting things to say. I like a guy that is sensitive to my feelings and my moods but is not a crybaby himself. I also like someone that cares about what I want but is not a pushover. I do not want a guy who's entire world revolves around me. I don't want to be called 20 times a day. I don't necessarily want to see him every single night. Also, personally, I kind of like nerdy guys :)

Answer 9

Be yourself and don't always try to prove you can do something you can't really do, admit it is OK to ask for help or directions, just show that you are a human being and you have feelings to, don't try to be all tough and bad a.s.s be kind and fun loving and show us a good time and do things with us, even things you aren't really that totally into doing all the time!

Answer 10

women want a guy who would do this for them:

- give her your sweatshirt to wear so other people know she is yours :]

- leave her sweet test messages/emails for when she wakes up

- sneak up behind her & grab her waist

- do anything just to make her smile

- always make her laugh

- tell her she’s beautiful not sexy or hot

- compliment her

- buy her things just because

- when your friends walk by say “this is my girlfriend”

- don’t be embarrassed to kiss her in front of your friends.

- say I love you to her face not JUST over the phone

- if she’s sad take her in your arms and tell her everything will be okay

- NEVER cheat on her (it’s the lowest low)

- call her just to say “I love you”

- kiss her on the forehead

- when you walk with her, walk slowly.

- tickle her even when she says stop

- tell her you miss her, even if you just saw her an hour ago

- don’t say “I love you” unless you mean It.

- kiss her for no reason.

- when she complains about how she looks tell her she's perfect just how she is.

- really listen to her when she talks, don’t just pretend.

- tell her your secrets.

- protect her.

Answer 11

I love to laugh, I love that in a man's personality. I also love a man that is genuine, plain and simple. Regardless if it's a good thing or a bad thing, but be confident in who you are, but not cocky. One girl might not like it but someone will.