leave America or stay?

Question

I'm ItaloAmerican is 9 years now I'm here in US
I love the country but I have to say the people
are so stupid sometime like today I was in my car
wait for a pedestrian end to cross the street
this asshole he look me and begin to say
"wtf are you looking?!!" with a tipical idiot attitude
now I was waiting for him where I supposte to look?

but is not over yet

he drop the bag and he was ready to fight
so I reply to him" FU!!! " and then I walk aways
because my wife she was yelling on me to let go
I know not all Americans are idiots like this guy
but I have to many similar case in this 9 years
and before somebody tell me to go back where
I come from let me tell you I'm proud to be American
and even I was not born in this beautiful country
you do not have the right to say so!!
however because I'm not used to deal with this bad attitude
I thinking to move out from this country I like to know
if somebody here have the same feeling and how
you deal with this problem?

Answer 1

People are hurt, people are tired, and people are lost. Espacially here in the United States, so there looking for something to lash out at.... I've been here 25 years and I've seen it time and time again... if your not ready to fight, then nod your head, or say sorry man just waiting for you to move.. explain yourself, its hard to be mad at someone who is being geniune to you. If that doesn't work, your the one in the car drive off, ignore him, but don't say FU... thats what there waiting on is someone to try and lash back at them... its the whole bigger person thing really... and expect this, money makes people competive and when your being competive theres no room for new enemies, so do your best to show your not there enemy. People will get there little ego trip on and move on.... if that doesn't work, please, please like the rest of us who can't handle the city, move out to the rural area's you might find a better class of people, or even suburban territories are better place... but urban america is a jungle buddy so its bad on everyone there...