Do they not realize the pain and hurt that their actions will cause?
2007-04-05 13:41:18 · 13 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's the problem clown, Too many people only think of themselves.
2007-04-05 13:48:30 · update #1
some people feel its o.k to cheat bc there selfish..plain and simple. People dont stop to think how there actions may affect there spouses..children and even there friends.
People who cheat usualy get some sort of 'high' from it bc its forbidden. i know this first hand bc im a REFORMED cheater.. i cheated and was cheated on. I did it bc i was very self absorbed..and i also was angry. people do it and make excuses for it so that they feel better about there actions.. if they didnt do that ...they probebly couldnt live with themselves.. cheating is a very guilty thing..that makes u feel like shiTT..... its only when u truely realize how ur actions can devestate ur family that change occurs.. for me anyway!!
2007-04-05 13:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by lisa baby... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men and women think cheating is acceptable as they are lacking in attention at home, so to make themselves feel god at the time they look for positive attention without realising theyare being used for sex only,then when they realise they have been used they then think about what they have done and they starts thinking of the pain it will cause to loved ones and then it mentally runs you downwhich becomes noticable and then your partner starts worrying then you end up having to tell what has happened. Which can ruin a relationship in seconds through pure stupidity
2007-04-05 13:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think people are thinking about the consequences. There actions are from excitement, wondering, and fantasy. People minds start to make up things that are exciting, and new. Once it is done is when the actions become consequences.
2007-04-05 13:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by loulou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Selfishness.
2007-04-05 14:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Selfishness, and not taking your vows to heart. It is disgusting and these people had no business getting married. They care about themselves rather than being a moral human being, and being faithful to your spouse. We are supposed to love, and honor our spouses, what the hell happened to that?
2007-04-05 13:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by SillierKimmie! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Selfishness.
2007-04-05 13:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by bigdaddy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People who cheat on their relationships or marriage make themselves think this way, so that they don't have to have a guilty conscience about being unfaithful.
2007-04-05 13:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
@ the point of thinking of cheating the "cheater" is so obssessed about satisfying their own needs that nothing else matters. There's lots of ppl out there w/very forgiving partners & know they can simply get away w/doing it. *Selfishness is so ugly*
2007-04-05 13:50:37 · answer #8 · answered by ihadthelastlaff 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lack of respect for others and no concern of what their actions may cause.Bottom line is they just don't care about anyone but them self.
2007-04-05 14:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate people who cheat! They are the worst! They hurt so many people, and ruin their lives! I've been cheated on, and it's the worst feeling you can get. Makes you feel not worthy. They are stupid... GRRR!
2007-04-05 13:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by leapnjen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋