When you have sex for your first time do you always remember that person?

Question

I want to give all of me to my wife. If I have sex with another girl before her then I'm afraid I'll remember her. I want to think of my spouse when I think of my first.

I hope she can do the same!

So for you who had sex with other people before your spouse...do you remember them?

future* wife

Answer 1

If you wanna' think of your spouse when you think of your first, then do that. She's the first spouse you've slept with anyway. . Lol. But, yes, hopefully you remember all of the people you've slept with or else you were too drunk or have slept with too many people and that's pretty nasty.

Answer 2

Yes, at 14 I lost my virginity to a beautiful, wonderful 34 yr.
old woman in a fantastic 3 month long summer affair...
I remember her well and I am 47 now..
I married when I was 28...
And I remember the first time with my wife, who was a virgin
when we started dating...

Answer 3

Yes, you will always remember that person (unless you were dead drunk or something). I've had other partners in the past but now the guy I'm with I know is the one and it's still special. I do wish I had waited to get married though so I could've been his first but I was young and stupid.

Answer 4

Why is it so important if you/she remembers the first time? I can remember my first root canal, but it's not exactly something I look back on with fond memories.
Stop obsessing about the past and concentrate instead on building a happy future.

Answer 5

Oh yes. I remember who and where. I could drive you to the spot. I remember what she smelled like. I remember what we did that night. Oh yeah, I don't think anyone forgets the first time, although some may want to.

Answer 6

I think you do always remember your first kiss and your first love. I think it's great that you want your wife to be your first. It will mean a lot to both of you. Good luck.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

If your wife is boring in bed you are going to remember any body that was the bomb in bed when you had sex with them.

Answer 9

Everyone remembers their first time, no matter who it was with. I certainly wish I had waited for my husband, and I know he would say the same. Your first time is traumatic unless you do it right, with the right person. Mine was the wrong person, and I regret it every day.

Answer 10

I remember nothing of her face..only that her snatch was as big as Carlsbad caverns. To me, she nothing more than a phantom of the past!!! Of course, it was years ago!!!

Look..if you have already met your wife to be..why are you thinking about having sex with another..to me that just sick.