i am 23 my husband 30 he has two kids (12&3). the 12 yr old lives w us the 3yr old lives w his mom i want kids but i also want a life and to look sexy for a long time. my husband had a vasectomy but will reverse it if i want him to no problem but sometimes i feel torn and i know he does to. we both love kids but we also want to travel and not be broke for ever.(he hasnt been able to leave state for 10yrs & pretty soon he will) i just dont want to have that void forever but i also want a happy marriage not bogged down. what do you think id love to hear some opinions
2007-04-05 13:32:40 · 4 answers · asked by hottiewife06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well your only 23 your "eggs" will be good for a while yet and men can produce sperm until their like 90 or something. I'd say travel, do everything you want to do while your young. Save somethings to look forward to when you retire, but don't give up on having children if you really want them after all how else will you get your baby fix when your retired but by being a grandma!
2007-04-05 14:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by baby♥Justin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ask for our opinions and in the end they dont really matter its what you want that counts and i hope what ever decision you make works for you good luck .
2007-04-05 20:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by william w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kids will "bog you down"... if you have to ask, DO NOT have kids
2007-04-05 20:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask others ,then the answer is no children.
2007-04-05 20:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by gc mech 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋