I dated this guy for about a year. suddenly he just breaks up with me for reasons that i partly dont even understand. but anyways he basically destroyed my life. within the next 2 weeks he started dating this other girl. i still have 4th period with him and we dont really talk at all, but we sit next to each other. i was so hurt that he did this to me. i dont know whether to be mad at him, or try to just move on because i still love him so much. how should i act around him 4th period to get some peace in my life? please help...thank you :)
2007-04-05 13:49:22 · 12 answers · asked by bchs_softball_player 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK well if you're not really talking then its obvious, you both are ignoring each other and that's not working, so just try be cordial. When you arrive in 4th period and see him, smile and say hi. Be as nice as you can be, without being pushy or overbearing to the point that he thinks you want him back. The smiling alone, will make him wonder what you're up to. Next surround yourself around people to help make yourself feel better and don't pay him no attention BC the fact is, he knows what he did to you and how it affected you and the fact that he got a girl 2 weeks later should show you where you are in order of importance in his life.
2007-04-05 14:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by Free_Spirit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called dating for a reason. Wouldn't you rather he break up with you than cheat on you? He doesn't feel the same way about you, what else would you have him do?
It's not his fault if you allow him breaking up with you destroy you life, that is you doing. Just leave him be and move on.
2007-04-05 20:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that was a terrible thing he did but boys only think about themselves:)you need to move on hy hould you be bothered about him when he dosent care about you they say that time is a great healer an that is very true so ive it time try to move on do you really want hm in your life if he has caused you s muc pain he is one person and you are so much better than hime so hld your head up high andget on with your life because if this is teh way he acts he is going no where fast!!!xxx
2007-04-05 20:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by confused!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please... can we say DRAMA QUEEN??? You're still in school honey, believe me he hasn't "destroyed your life"... you just feel that way cause you're still young... you'll get out of high school, meet some great guy, and realize that you didn't even know what love was before him... move on and get over this guy... oh, and do a little growing up too while you're at it...
2007-04-05 20:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by Love Me or Hate Me... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him destroy your life. Show him you can hold your head high and move on. Go out with other guys. Enjoy your life. It's later than you think.
2007-04-05 20:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him, easier said than done. but you must understand an important principle: people who don't care for others don't deserve to be loved.
you may have a crush on him because he is cute and so, but you must understand that you should love people for what they are from inside not how they look
2007-04-05 20:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should just let it go and move on if u still keep on thinking about him and stuff like that then well ur just keeping yourself from meeting other guys that u might like
:D Susie
2007-04-05 20:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on. He destroyed your life? Nope. That's you and your emotions--which you have to keep a grip on, not anyone else.
2007-04-05 20:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by paralegaltechnik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
act like yourself and move on. or atleast try to move on with your life. you'll find another guy. he destroyed your life u so u have to move on now.
2007-04-05 20:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get over him, it doesn't sound like he's worth it if he did this to you. Life will go on.
2007-04-05 20:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by awr1956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋