My husband of 6 months admits he's seeing someone on the side (they're not having sex because she doesn't put out, period, since having three kids), and he knows it hurts me. He says he doesn't want to end it with her because he doesn't want to hurt her, and I could ALMOST respect that, except he won't answer the phone if I call, can't stand to be close to me, anything. Yesterday I set up my webcam and watched what was going on between them while I was at work. (Yes, I know that's low, but I didn't believe what he was telling me, and I was right!) He swears to me he treats us the same, but he doesn't. He's all cuddled up with her and kissing on her (and much more, from the looks of it), and never spends any time with me. I want to make it work, but he knows I'm not good at following through when I tell him he has to leave or end it with her. How do I finally put my foot down and make him make (and stick to) a decision instead of hiding it better?
2007-04-05
16:24:16
·
34 answers
·
asked by
KerLaine
1
in
Marriage & Divorce