he has before.. but so have i. I dont know if he is but i didnt think he was when he did it before. I catch him in some lies.. but they're never big ones. Its been 2 years and I really dont want to loose him but I just dont trust him like I should. any advice ??
2007-04-05 16:22:43 · 12 answers · asked by caitlin; xxx 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well i can understand were you are coming from.but you need to ask yourself is this what i want is to worry about my man cheating on me for the rest of my life?if you love him then you got to let it go and try to work it out but both of you have to be honest to each other and work together.lies are never good when you are trying to work things out big or small.but don,t stay like i did till you are to old to find someone to really love you and care about you.
2007-04-05 16:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by dana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the most important part in a relationship. Years of experience is where I speak from. My soon to be husband was cheated on with his wife and then with his ex-girlfriend of 8 years. He has a very hard time trusting me, but little does he know that I think he is the buff. I have really never been cheated on, nor have I ever cheated, lost the last husband that ever ment anything to me to a fire, cheating is not worth it weather he has done it first or not. If he cheated on you and you cheated in retaliation, then the relatioinship is not worth it. Neither of you care for the other as you should. Please re-evaluate your feelings, cheating in reitaluation is not love!! When you love someone, you either forgive them or you don't. Forgiveness does not mean forgetting. It means forgiving!! If he loves you he will devote his life to you from here on out.
2007-04-06 00:14:01 · answer #2 · answered by sandybug03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my bf had the same problem but I didn't cheat on him. What I had to do was start snooping. I found some numbers in his phone that shouldn't have been there. I called the numbers and talked to girls and I found out that he wasn't cheating that the girls was just calling him because he wouldn't return their calls. What I mean is sometimes you have to give them the benefit of the doubt and then sometimes you have to go in and do your own research. First I would sit him down and talk to him if that doesn't work become a private detective and see what you can find. If there's nothing don't worry but if it is I would give him the door.
"One time shame on you, Second time shame on me, Third you gotta go."
2007-04-05 23:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to validated ur feelings . he can be cheating in so many ways. i learn if u don't validated ur self .how can u expect him to validate u and if u want to know for sure and u think hes lying then find out . or be like me and went with my feelings.and left without any problems 20 yrs i let him make me think that i was crazy! and found out later from other that i was not crazy. by then it was ok because i was validated by myself
don't let anyone tell u or make u think u are crazy?
2007-04-06 02:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by lydzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say do you love me and if he walks away and say oh I have to go. Then come back and say I know you are cheating so don't even try to leave. I gave you my best advice and it is your decision if you want him still in your life.
2007-04-05 23:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by sexibitchalwayz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gut is probly right mine was you have a very hard decision to make. and did you cheat on him after he cheated on you the first time. if you decide to stay ask him why he is doing this agin but good luck on what ever you decide
2007-04-05 23:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by speddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say misery loves company. Must be true here. If you think he is cheating, then you must be cheating on him yourself or at the least thinking about it.
Shame On You!
2007-04-05 23:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by jeremybradley2562 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once the trust is gone the level of respect is too, you need to push on Boo, don't stay and get hurt any longer, You don't want to end up with kids,or a disease do you.
2007-04-05 23:39:12 · answer #8 · answered by Kbella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings never go away, this is true..
The only thing you would be losing though, is the sense that you're in a relationship that only you are being faithful in.
2007-04-05 23:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by No. 41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow this link & tell them the situation.
http://www.cheaters.com/
Maybe they can help you find out for sure.
2007-04-05 23:45:49 · answer #10 · answered by love_um_or_leave_um 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋