2007-04-05 23:11:53 · 17 answers · asked by amy g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES---it's best to hold off til you know it's right. I wish I would have held off.
2007-04-05 23:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um....YES? most definately.
that would be the absolute best if you respect yourself, your reputation and virtue, but unfortunately it's not usually the case in these times bc the girl gets all emotional when the guy says the "right" things that the girl wants to hear to make her "feel good" about herself and all..
It usually takes many years to find the "Right" person and it will take getting to know may along the way..
you must get to know yourself, love your self and honor yourself first before you ever try to allow someone else to love, honor and get to know the real you intimately... but it's always your choice..everything in your life is YOUR choice not another when it comes to you and your safety.
Most importantly you must remember you can love someone till it kills you, (even after a break up) but you never have to live with them, marry them, talk to them, or be around them bc love is an unconditional emotion that crosses all time, distance and space. I have literally lost everyone I have ever loved; by death, or them just leaving me and I still love them the same today. I hope you understand.
good luck
2007-04-05 23:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doing so has its pros n cons. pro being it shows u have will power to stick things through. n that u have morals. truth being u never know what life holds for u. what if u save it for that "right" one and that right one leaves u? no one knows that right one till the end of their life when they're on their death bed.
to be honest i'm ashamed of it now, but when i was younger a friend & i took a bet on a guys virginity. i won n never messed with him again. he lacked in experience sorry to say.
2007-04-05 23:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by surelybonafide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you wont regret it then. Sex really isnt a big deal and if anyone tries to make you ahve it before youre ready, they arent looking out for your needs and arent the right person.
2007-04-05 23:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by LaLa La-ooh-ra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the best sex in the world is with the person you love. Also, you will be sure you are not passing any diseases to the person you love.
2007-04-05 23:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to have sex with someone you love than with some random stranger. It makes the wait worthwhile and the memory cherishable. Your call.
2007-04-05 23:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer you choose abstinence and keep your virginity, the longer you will be safe from pregnancy, diseases and injuries. Most people wait till they marry and make babies before mating.
2007-04-05 23:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather wait. Sex is a great perk in a relationship but what really matters are, love and commitment.
2007-04-05 23:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by XLR8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll remember your first for the rest of your life. Make it worth it and worth the wait.
2007-04-05 23:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by cashew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the right person.
A loving, caring relationship is like a cake, sex is like the icing. We all love icing, but if that all you had, you'd get sick of it.
2007-04-05 23:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jenni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋