My girlfriend says I love her too much. One example is this morning. I text back and forth with her for about 45 minutes and then talked to her for about 10. She said I told her I loved her 3 times. I told her once in a text and once while talking on the phone. When I said I love you before we were to hang up she let out an irritated sigh and said that I tell her I love her too many times and that it is not normal. We have been dating for quite some time and spent many nights with eachother. We have become a part of each others families and shared our desire to get married. Do i tell her I love her too much? Is it possible to tell someone you love them too much if you really mean it? What do you think?
2007-04-05 23:58:40 · 13 answers · asked by kendzerski2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it depends on how the other person feels at the end of the day, but perhaps your pushing it too much or maybe she doesn't feel as strongly as you possibly because she doesn't feel as connected to you as you are to her she may be hiding something from you or feel you are hiding something from her i think you just need to do something to gain more of her trust so that she knows that your willing to share everything with her and that she can share everything with you and know at the end of the day you still adore her and love her as much as you did at the start
ie instead of telling her how much you love her show her how much you love her by doing things that are sweet and considerate
2007-04-06 00:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by woot!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a bad sign. Dude, let me break it to you. You will hate me, but I am sure I am correct. She's not that into you. Don't marry anyone that makes you feel desperate and needy. If she was the right one, you would feel loved and telling her 1000 times a day you love her wouldn't matter. Most of the people have to go through many relationsips to be able to end up with the one that was meant to be and to be able to grow personally and emotionally in order to read the early on signs when someone is just not returning the same amount of feelings back. Some people feel pity when someone is feeling so strongly about them that they try loving them, but it doesn't work out and then they get irritated both at themselves for hurting that person unpurposelly and at that person per se. Good luck, but she is not the one. Re-think everything. Trust me, when the one that was meant for you comes to you, you will love her more than this girl, I guarantee that.
2007-04-06 00:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by stargazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cool to say it every once in a while but saying it all of the time takes some of the value away for most people. Try holding back for a while and watch how she reacts. You'll be pleasantly surprised.
2007-04-06 00:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Law 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think she would love hearing those words from someone she's in love with and wants to marry...but if she says (or displays) that it's annoying her...then you may want to back off a little. Let her be the first to call or text message or say "Ilove you" once in awhile
2007-04-06 00:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's got a problem then.I tell my wife that I love her,every 10 minutes or so when we are together.I work offshore so I don't get to tell her that I love her as much as if I was home.Sometimes I e-mail her just to tell her that I love her.When I call her, I tell her that I love her at least 5 times before we hang up,and without a sigh she tells me back that she loves me too.I asked her one time if I tell her that to much and she said no.Most women like to hear a man tell them that they love them,I guess she's one of those that you rather didn't tell her.
2007-04-06 00:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by dragonsaver005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible to say it too much. It just reeks of desperation, like you're afraid she'll run away so you have to keep feeding her that line. Instead of constantly saying you love her, what she really wants is for you to show her you love her. Most men have the opposite problem that you have. You need to speak with your actions more and less with that same line.
2007-04-06 00:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by superman11978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, that's the beginning of the end. Go ahead and start looking for another girl. Any female that gets annoyed that easily is just trying to get you to fight about it. my friend.. leave her... NOW. Think about it, she's actually telling you that expressing your feelings are annoying her. How F'n retarded is that? You really want to marry someone like that? Or it could be that she's cheating on you, and you saying that makes her feel guilty and that's her way of getting you to stop. Either way it's time to go.
2007-04-06 00:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by icehawk00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in the three years I've been married I said I love you twice, so between the two of us we average out. So tell her you have to make up for some inconsiderate *** who doesn't say I love you enough to his wife.
2007-04-06 00:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as surprising as it may be a lot of girls don't like to be told by their bfs that they love them too much. i don't think there is such a thing as saying i love you to much to someone if you mean it. my hubby and i tell each other that at least 100 + times a day and i could never get tired of hearing it :)
2007-04-06 00:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by me 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband has always told me that-about 100 times a day.It's nice at first but then it does start to get a little irritating.It kinda makes me wonder if he is trying to convince me or himself.
2007-04-06 00:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋