Family & Relationships - 2 April 2007

My mother in law took it upon herself to bring my 1st born only son to take his 1st pictues. I called and asked her about it and she copped an attitude when I told her that it would have been nice if she could have asked me first and she said "I didn't have to ask you anything." I wasn't really upset until she said that. later that day I called my b/f to see where he was at and he sounded upset. I asked him what was wrong and he said he was fine but I can tell if something is bothering him. Later that night when he got home he was all funny acting and not really acting himself so I could tell then that he was upset but he has no reason to be. I am guessing that he's mad because I called and confronted his mother about the pic situation but I wasn't mean or rude to her, I just felt like she had no right to do that so I asked her about it. she was the one with the attitude. Now am I wrong. Oh and then he went with her to take my baby pictures. Nobody thought to ask me about it.

2007-04-02 05:01:05 · 9 answers · asked by lovemuffin 2 in Family

OK, my ex Shannon , was going through a bad time and was thinking of killing herself.....but didn't. the friday b4 she gave me a note say that she didn't love me(ever), (when it was her that asked me)......it was a few days after we got back to school that I learn all of this stuff.......and know she wants us to go back out, should I?????what's stopping her from doing it again, and the werst part is she and I never talked, when something was wrong, she'd get her friends to tell me.......hope you can help?

2007-04-02 04:59:24 · 9 answers · asked by D-fire 1 in Singles & Dating

Have that ever happened to you?
it's been 5 months now since I am out of a desastrous relationship with my ex-gf ...well, it happens where I'm still thinking of her ..We have been together for 10 months ...But, now I think I have started to move on, I'm trying, after 5 months, to get out of myself and try to get out with other people ..not necessarily , people, that I'm crazily in love with, but, people that I appreciate without any feelings involved ...Last night, I went out with a girl, I met recently ...she's really a cool and great person, I'm not in love with her, but I appreciate her and likes to be with her because she's someone really nice in character and no so a bad girl either ..but, it happened yesterday, while, I was eating at the same restaurant I used to eat with my ex , thoughts of my ex-gf, comes around again ..!! I was thinking of my ex while I was with her ...Is that normal of your ex while you are with someone else ...?

2007-04-02 04:59:07 · 13 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine who you talked to a lot is looking for:
Tony from Morristown,NJ
Please contact me for her info.......

2007-04-02 04:57:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

this world is full of difficulties.always war and sadness what is going on with the peopel around the world.

2007-04-02 04:57:44 · 7 answers · asked by muhammad javed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it hard for men to just be honest when they r in love . Why can't they just admit the feelings inside are bigger than them?

2007-04-02 04:57:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-02 04:56:52 · 9 answers · asked by Sarah H 3 in Singles & Dating

Im a recent college graduate that started my career in august 06. I am still staying at home trying to save money, but I wanted to know the opinions of others out there about what they think. Also would a woman date a guy that is still living at home with his parents?

2007-04-02 04:56:47 · 14 answers · asked by tutor83 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why/ Why not? How do you choose between the two? How do you know you are making the right decision?

(NO HATE PLEASE)

2007-04-02 04:55:42 · 35 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

My husband told me that he only married me because I was pregnant and diagnosed with a potentially terminal illness. What would you do? This was ten years ago.

2007-04-02 04:53:36 · 10 answers · asked by Liz A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-02 04:52:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Isn't it hard when someone you still love so much cannot even contact you now and then, it's like you cannot even be friends and you are not a part of their everyday life anymore? Doesn't that person miss you back? It really makes one feel worthless:(. How did you cope with that in your case? When you passed the misery and anger phase, did you ever say hi to that person again?

2007-04-02 04:51:53 · 7 answers · asked by stargazer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married six months and in my mid twenties. I don't know its normal or not but i dont feel like trying for a baby yet as there are so many things i wanna do or enjoy before starting a family. am i been selfish?
How to convince my husband to wait for some more time? he is tired of birth control!
I love him very much and dont want to hurt him in any way but at the same time i dont think i am ready for a baby yet! it's all quite confusing and scary.

2007-04-02 04:50:57 · 10 answers · asked by comp90 3 in Family

My bf (who I hope to marry one day), is previously married with 2 kids. He and his former wife had decided they wanted the kids to attend private school quite a ways away ofr junior high whcih is in 3 yrs. He told me that he will be willing to relocate or do whatever it took to get them there. This is a prior commitment he made with his x, and thats the way it will be when that time comes if there is no alternative. My problem with this is when we marry don't I get a say in life. Just because he made this prior commitment, shouldn't I still get a say? I mean career changes and private school are big expensive things. I think my opinion should matter, regardless of prior commitments, it will be my life too wont it? I'm expected to treat the kids as my own and love them as my own but anything attaining to them is none of my business, what I say doesn't matter because I'm not the parent. I think it's ridiculous that I'm expected to treat them no different then my own but have no opinion.

2007-04-02 04:49:21 · 14 answers · asked by Vanessa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy...he doesn't look at me much...I totally think I'm an idiot..ugly...fat...every... can
how can he possibly like me with all the hot girls in the school?
I never had a bf...
I'm not ugly...but I feel ugly... :(
I fell in love with his character and not of his physical aspect...
before I liked this other boy and he didn't like me back... he blocked me on msn when I added him...and I cried for 2 days...
I was extremely depressed...
so I didn't talk much with this boy and I don't want my heart to break like for the other one...
I want to really tell him...he takes only history with me :(
I'm always looking at him... rarely he stares back ...when I see him I get like cramps ...I only wished he like me...
when I used to like the other boy he seemed to look at me like often...but now everything is different...
but I don't know :(
Is it possible he likes me?

2007-04-02 04:49:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been corresponding w/a guy that I met on Craigslist. He seems like a nice guy but I'm nervous about sending him a picture. For one, I don't take particularly good pictures. But more importantly, I'm worried that it could be put anywhere. Am I being irrational?

2007-04-02 04:48:25 · 5 answers · asked by risky girl 2 in Singles & Dating

They get mad at me for even mentioning the word date(ing). I am thinking about screwing what they say and make my own desicions for a change.

2007-04-02 04:47:32 · 8 answers · asked by alyandkeiraaremyidols 2 in Singles & Dating

She's just my friend.........

2007-04-02 04:47:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in a 2 bedroom apartment. Latley, 3 guys that I work with have been ASKING ME IF THEY CAN LIVE WITH ME AND BE MY ROOMATE. I keep telling them that I like peace & privacy in my apartment, AND I DON'T NEED ROOMATES. I just have a feeling that people want to use me because I GET MY BILLS PAID ON TIME & ALWAYS HAVE A CLEAN APARTMENT. How do I tell people in a nice way that I really do not need any roomates? ( And can you tell me if you been in this situation before or had a bad experience with roomates.)

2007-04-02 04:46:38 · 33 answers · asked by Student of the Game 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone have a simple list?
I want them to be nice but some of the list I have seen are huge with all the stuff to put in them... I just want simple and sweet... not everything and the kitchen sink in there.
What are the "basics" you should have for a bathroom basket?

2007-04-02 04:46:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am in the process of getting a divorce and I just received the Respondants Original Answer.
1. General Denial
2. Prayer
Respondant prays that Petitioner take nothing and that respondent be granted al relief.
My attorney is out of town...what does this mean? Somebody help!

2007-04-02 04:44:50 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 16 and i am more into white guys than i am in to black guys. last week i broke up with my bf (hes black) and my best friends are now trying to hook me up with another black guy. i told them about my issue but they started giving me negative opinions. besides me being attracted to them i am also scared of going out with them as i think it will feel weird as i have never seen a black girl in my area ever date a white guy while they are so many white girls who go out with black guys.. what should i do please help
thanks
" excuse my english im still learning

2007-04-02 04:43:06 · 9 answers · asked by Dimple 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you live with yourself? My 83 year old mother is manipulative, hateful, mean spirited (and her doctor said that) but has nothing wrong with her mentally that would cause her behavior. I am an only child - she hates my husband (2nd husband) and tries to split our family apart. My two adopted children can't stand her - don't want to see her, She's hurt them too much by saying things about my current husband. She talks to my ex-husband on a daily basis, to see if she can talk him into trying to get custody.

My Dad died in 2000 - he was the buffer between us. We never got along. My youngest son is bi-polar, and he was just released from the mental ward a week ago today. They haven't seen her since New Year's Day. I went over once when she fell - and then I remembered that she told me tht the next time she fell he would accuse me of it. There is so much more to the story than I have characters to work with. She is an alcoholic, addicted to prescription meds.

2007-04-02 04:41:28 · 11 answers · asked by PapillionWyngs 3 in Family

There is this guy I have been talking to, and he invited me over to have sex and when I went over there my friend called to come over too So she did and they had sex and today I have been calling him and asking him why he did that and he said he wanted some and it didnt matter, to him because he wanted me. What should I do just drop him??

2007-04-02 04:41:04 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I recently met a man over the internet, he's a very nice single dad of two very adorable litlle kids 5y old girl and 3yr old little boy. For our first date he invited me "and" my 2 boy 12yrs and 5yrs to come spend the weekend @ his house and he took us to the beach. We all clikcked like puzzle pieces. I feel so strongly about this relationship and he felt it to. Like we were the missing puzzle pieces to his life and his family were the mising puzzles pieces to our lives. My 12yr old totaly accepeted him right away. He came to me monday morning and said mom don't let this one get away. It mad me cry, because for 10yrs he would totaly reject any man other than his fater that I tried to be with. He would go as far as fist fighting with the guys I was with. So 2 have "him" come to me and tell me that is a big thing . I've tried telling my new man this and he says it's because my son is older now. I don't think that is it at all I belive it has everything to do with this new family.

2007-04-02 04:40:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Tell me your favorite:
color,
person,
sign,
celebrity,
food,
desert.
Just tell me your favorite and maybe we ken be friends. oh god that sounds sooo preppy. im just saying, im lonely and I need to find sum friends!!!!!

2007-04-02 04:40:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is a very sexy woman. Yesterday, not only did she bring me a beer, she had her shirt unbuttoned down to her cleavage and kept bending over in front of me. Now I cannot get her out of my head. She has never brought me a beer before while working in my yard. She always waves and smiles at me.

I am so attracted to her that I am now fantasizing about having sex with her. How do I control this or should i? I'll be honest, I do not want to control my urges.

ps: She is married to a sterile geek with money and I am a man's man. I think she is attracted to my physical looks.

2007-04-02 04:39:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my fiance are getting married in June. We are going to try to keep things cheap because we don't have a lot of extra money to spare but we would like to do something that looks nice. Does anyone have any ideas on how to cut down on costs?

I would also appreciate a neat idea for my birdesmaids!

Also, When my cousin got married they sent out little cards with their invitations were you put you recipe to a happy marriage on it. I was wondering if anyone had any cute ideas like that. I loved the idea but I don't want to copy what she did

2007-04-02 04:36:46 · 8 answers · asked by g_bug 3 in Weddings

I found out after we put the deposit on our reception site that my husband's sister asked him not to schedule it for that weekend because her 10 year old son usually has a baseball tournament during that week. She's peeved. He says we shouldn't change it because we don't even know if the tournament will be that week and that a wedding has precedence over baseball. We would also lose the deposit and the venue we chose isn't open any other dates this summer. None of her family is actually in the wedding, but they are all invited

2007-04-02 04:35:11 · 21 answers · asked by rucirius 3 in Weddings

2007-04-02 04:33:05 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating