Why/ Why not? How do you choose between the two? How do you know you are making the right decision?
(NO HATE PLEASE)
2007-04-02 04:55:42 · 35 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
two really great guys, alot of history with both (friendship wise)
2007-04-02 05:04:45 · update #1
and for the record, Im only sleeping with one, not cheating
2007-04-02 05:05:58 · update #2
I think you can be in love with two people at the same time and it's really hard cause you really don't know what the best thing to do is cause you don't want to hurt no one but at the same time you want to be happy. So you just got to ask yourself who do you truely think is the right person for you, who can you see yourself being with for a long time. It may take a while to figure out who you really want to be with but it's for your happiness so time shouldn't matter
2007-04-10 01:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by Kyree 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you find it troubling to decide on who to choose, then your better off to drop both of them. Reason being is because if you choose one over the other, you'll always wonder what life would be like with the other person.
When you disregard both relations, you eliminate the thought of what could take place with the other person you didn't choose.
This also eliminates bad karma that will come knocking on your doorstep. Sooner or later those two people your playing around with will realize your sleeping around and you'll lose both anyways, but the consequences will be more severe.
And if you drop both, you still have the potential of either getting one of them back (if they are truly THE ONE), or you find a new love in someone different.
2007-04-02 05:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by sum1_keeps_taking_my_name 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you can be in love with two people at the same time, but it's best for all concerned if you make your decision as soon as possible.
I don't know enough about you or the people concerned to advise you who to choose. I would advise you however not to base your choice on how much guilt you feel for one of the guys, as that is a poor basis for a relationship and is likely to cause more hurt in the long term.
2007-04-10 04:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by manneke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know that you are making the right decision. You can be in love with two people but one might not be for the right reasons.
2007-04-09 15:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by Shelby N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you can easily be in love with two people at once. I have been. You choose by following your heart. Sometimes it takes time, and you have to let your heart take it's time. If that doesn't work...use a pro and con list on both people may sound odd, but many people do it for similar things involving love.
2007-04-02 05:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by hopelessly romantic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're emotionally torn. You most likely love them for different reasons. Do some soul searching....make a list of what you want or expect out of a mate....then on a separate list...mark what feeling or emotion or security you get from each of these people.
Which one do you call when you're hurt? when your sick? Who do you see yourself with in 10 years....who makes you laugh the hardest....who holds you when you cry? Who are you the most honest with...and who loves you despite what you say? Who do you argue with and then can't wait to make up with?
You have to decide which things are most important for your future! This is normal in the early stages, but you are going to have a make a choice....you can't play with someone else's emotions...and that's what you'll be doing if you let it go on much longer! Trust yourself!
2007-04-02 05:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no possible way you can be in love with two different people. Their is a connection that you have with the one you are sleeping with and that connection is strong but the other one you all havent shared that yet so it must be something. You can love both of them but you are only in love with one
2007-04-02 05:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by iLoVeMe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Truthfully, I think yes a person could. Acceptable No.
Remember we live in a society who has decided for the better of man kind, there should only be one love. It works out better that way.
The most important of all though is, GOD said have one wife!
Cling to her and no other including your own mother. You are supposed to love her and only her.
2007-04-09 19:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by safetyusa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so, at least not without really hurting someone.
You must choose.
Choosing is a decision your heart would make. If you had the opportunity to see one vs. the other at the same time, which one would you go to?
Which one do you trust?
Which one excites you more?
The more questions you ask and answer, the clearer it will become.
2007-04-02 05:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can be in love with two people at one time but you have to decide which one you love the most you should have more feelings for one then the other your heart should tell you the answer
2007-04-02 05:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by Mz $o $!ck w!t !t!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋