Im a recent college graduate that started my career in august 06. I am still staying at home trying to save money, but I wanted to know the opinions of others out there about what they think. Also would a woman date a guy that is still living at home with his parents?
2007-04-02 04:56:47 · 14 answers · asked by tutor83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it is okay as long as you contribute some to household costs and set a time limit for how long you will stay. As long as you have a reasonable goal that you will accomplish, it is a good idea.
And yes, women will see that you are goal oriented and serious about your future if you tell them why you are still living at home. They may even like you more! Good luck!
2007-04-02 05:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by Myra 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think the living arrangements are ok if your folks agree to it. HOWEVER, I think you should be paying your share of the bills, i.e., if there are three of you in the house, one-third of the bills should be paid by you. You should also put money towards groceries.
As a woman, I would not even consider dating a college aged man who lives at home with his folks. What if we wanted to fool around or get intimate? It would not be a good idea to take the girl to mommy and daddy's hous.
Saving money is a good motivator to stay home. Hold your end of the bills AND do not bring women into their home.
2007-04-02 12:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, your doing the smart thing!!!! That's what I'm going to do; I graduate in May.... It's smart, because you SAVE BIG TIME MONEY this way.... You will eventually have to live on your own, so there's no rush. As for a woman that will date you in this situation, I obviously can't say but I would think there would be someone that would; unless they have an issue with it, and if they do, then they aren't worth it.
2007-04-02 13:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy_m_espana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman would rather not, but if she gets to know you and understands that you are working towards a bright and financially secure future she won't mind.
Move out when you can buy a piece of property, don't rent. Renting is throwing money down the drain. Plus it is a turn on if a young guy has a house already. It means he is determined, financially responsible and smart.
2007-04-02 12:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by Bittersweet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im in the same boat as you........im 23 just graduated last may, started working last august, and im still living with my mom. I plan on living at home for atleast another year until i get my finances in order and ready to commit to rent payments. As far as meeting girls, i have found it to be really difficult to start serious relationships.
2007-04-02 12:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by Wizard of Ahhs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At age 23, why would you want to live with Mom and Dad? I can see doing it for a little while, until you save money to get out. However, life is too short...get out and live it on your own terms. You won't regret it (and your parents either).
2007-04-02 12:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by suigeneris-impetus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try buying a trailer. their cheap and it will be your own place. would i date you if you lived at home? no way!!! most woman would think your still attached to the parents and not on your own. if you live with your parents, it doesn't sound like your very independent. as a woman's point of view, this is how i would see it.
2007-04-02 12:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is weird at all, and yes, I would date a guy that still lives with his parents.
I think it's a smart choice, as long as you get along well with your parents and your not still making your mom do your laundry.
In a lot of cultures men and women don't leave home until they are married. Italians I think?
2007-04-02 12:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone. The key is to let your parents know that your stay is only temporary - then set a timetable. You should also try to help your parents monetarily as much as you can afford and be a model guest in their home.
2007-04-02 12:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely it is ok. And make sure Mommy makes your bed, does your laundry, and cooks your meals. she would be lost without someone to take care of.
2007-04-02 12:01:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋