My husband told me that he only married me because I was pregnant and diagnosed with a potentially terminal illness. What would you do? This was ten years ago.
2007-04-02 04:53:36 · 10 answers · asked by Liz A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That was 10 years ago...how does he feel now? A lot can happen in 10 years and feelings can change. Perhaps he's thankful that he married you, regardless of the reason that he did it.
2007-04-02 04:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Answer these questions, then decide:
**Are you still afflicted with this potentially terminal illness?
**Did you carry the pregnancy to term?
**Do you WANT to be married to this person anymore for reasons other than caring for the child?
**Do you want to stay married to a person who married you out of pity?
**Do you and/or he have romantic feelings for one another?
**Do you have religious or cultural issues that would prevent you from seeking a divorce?
When you can answer these questions, you'll have your answer. I might suggest that perhaps you seek the care of a therapist to help you sort out your emotional turmoil.
2007-04-02 12:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love still stands when all else has fallen. If you don't marry for love then there will be issues in the marriage.
2007-04-02 11:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by wisdom_women 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would file a divorce. but not in a bad or mean way. just tell him that you think the two of you should go different ways because you know he wants to see other people. i know it hurts but it is the truth. it is better to split than to live the rest of your life pretending to be in love with someone who doesn't love you back.
2007-04-02 12:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by leeanna n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy now and the marriage works, forget about what was and focus on what is.
If you are not in love with him or visa versa, then you should have the marriage terminated.
That's very sad. I wish you well.
2007-04-02 11:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not. Just by him saying that shows he doesnot care about your feelings.
2007-04-02 12:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by brog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was him I would find someone 10 years younger.
2007-04-02 11:57:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
no, unless he has since fallen in love with you. sometimes that happens where feelings grow after being with someone for a period of time.
2007-04-02 11:57:02 · answer #8 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
say your having a relaps!
2007-04-02 11:56:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
hahaahahahahaahahahahaah.. sucker!
2007-04-02 11:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by soapscumninja 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋