Family & Relationships - 2 April 2007

I have had sex with only one man in my life: my husband. Is it normal to feel as if I am missing out on something? To be honest, if sex is just like what him and I are doing, then I am not too impressed. I can 'take matters into my own hands" a lot better if you know what I mean. I feel like I am missing out on something that can be wonderful. Is that normal?

Also, could I be expecting too much out of sex possibly?

(I am 32, by the way, in case you are wondering. Lost my virginity around the age of 18, been married almost 11 years)

2007-04-02 06:06:27 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer L 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do guys really feel about girls on the petite side??

2007-04-02 06:05:38 · 21 answers · asked by sophia bush 4 in Singles & Dating

my husband left me six months ago.we have been together 7 yrs.he said he could not get over the fact that i cheated 1 yr before that i was on drugs then.so he left .still payingall the bolls and seeing the kids every day having sex with me.wel;l nedless to say i had been clean 1 yr sence i had cheated.i caught him at a hotel with a girl we both no.i am 33 he is 40 and she is 28.so when he left i relapsed doind drugs again.so any chance i guess i blew.all these months he has been so distant says he wanted to ghet caught and hurt me ya right busted...went on his cell phone bill witch of corse is always off but whatever he hasent wanted me said it over move on.he has been talking to her sence they got caught 3 months.i got clean again now he is always telling me how pretty i am and in his eays i se he still loves his family.i caled her and told her.he says he does not luv her.we went and tok the kids4 the weekend out of town 4 the first time was great .she calel at 4am .does he even care.

2007-04-02 06:04:48 · 2 answers · asked by dominicstrange 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm considering getting circumcised. I wanted to do it as an surprise for my girlfriend because she is overseas and i will be able to heal b4 i see her again. I was just wondering what most women would think of this if their man did it it. Does it make any sexual difference at all? Does it feel any different?

2007-04-02 06:04:05 · 9 answers · asked by Dave K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i already told his friend that i kinda like him
my friend asked him if he likes me and she told me kinda and kinds not so wat can i do to keep him my friend but not hurt his feelings?

2007-04-02 06:02:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an essay due about why the laws for child support on delinquent fathers should be more strict. I have my opinion but also have to have 3 other sources of reasons.. can anyone help me on finding this information please?! My essay has to be 4-5 pages long! I'm having trouble locating such resources...

2007-04-02 06:01:04 · 12 answers · asked by Beth C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i found some movies and dirty magazines in my husband truck. why is he keeping them a secret???? he watches them at work he says and i find that really weird...... this seems very odd.

2007-04-02 05:58:07 · 2 answers · asked by missywst 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if i were to meet you in the street or anywhere and you were single and i was to look up and say "GOD you're beautiful can i take you away and give you everything you ever wanted and more and treat you like a queen" what would your reply be? be brutally honest

2007-04-02 05:57:57 · 114 answers · asked by bundy ball bag 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 05:54:54 · 27 answers · asked by Andrew S 2 in Singles & Dating

god gave out good looks????????

how good looking do you think you are?

2007-04-02 05:52:56 · 36 answers · asked by luv2luvu 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 05:45:25 · 10 answers · asked by james b 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

It has always struck me strange that my husband was with petite, small framed, short women his entire life until he met me. He's a large, tall guy, 6'4 and 240. It's great now that we're married and have kids, but it always makes me wonder in the back of my mind why he preferred that type for so many years and then dated and married me, a tall woman. Any thoughts on this? Does anyone out there think we all have "types" but maybe don't admit it? I always wonder if he'd rather be with a tiny woman like he was before even though we have a great life.

2007-04-02 05:44:53 · 5 answers · asked by Jenn 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you meet the best friends you evr had during high school or after college and stuff, because I'm 15 and the friends I have now are idiot backstabbers and not really true friends. Also how do you get real true friends?

2007-04-02 05:43:23 · 12 answers · asked by becsting 3 in Friends

Ive been diveorced for 6 yrs and have prayed and wished for a man like "Boof", i want to show him exactly how special he is to me, my finances are low, due to being a single mother( hes great with my boys), and I need want to show him how much hes really helped me and how much he really means to me. please help......

2007-04-02 05:42:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 05:41:08 · 25 answers · asked by flamingo 1 in Singles & Dating

Everytime I'm looking at TV he 'steals' the remote control and zap to the sport channels! One of those days I'll go mad! What to do? Helllllllp

2007-04-02 05:37:54 · 23 answers · asked by Topaps 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do guys think about sex more than having a real relationship with a girl. NOT saying every guy thinks like that, but most I have been with just used me then went and found some1 else. Except for the 1 have now, I think we're really going to make it work. I HOPE X)

2007-04-02 05:34:15 · 10 answers · asked by Death Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

were just 3 mos.my bf and i texting everyday,and come to my house everyday no matter what happen he come even if his kids is in their house he come to see me even when his father died he came to see me.,but now he dont come in my house but we keep texting eachother.he said he cant come bcoz he's ex leave his 2 kids to him bcoz his ex go to their province bcoz her grandma just died,he tell me we cant see just now that i must understand him,now i miss him much but were just texting,does he still love?

2007-04-02 05:33:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it true absence makes the heart grow fonder?

2007-04-02 05:33:39 · 16 answers · asked by DeliciousGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

If someone says in the begining of your relationship that the sex was not good and that someone else was the best sex they ever had. Should I be upset? Is this someone who could really love me? Do I have a future with this person?

2007-04-02 05:30:40 · 15 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4 in Marriage & Divorce

do guys typically fall in love with a girl before they have sex with her or not untill after?
just wanted everybody to share their opinions and experiences on this....

2007-04-02 05:28:56 · 9 answers · asked by Bird 3 in Singles & Dating

I filed my divorce back in Nov., didn't follow through with it because we were trying to work it out. He stopped drinking but now has recently started again. He got a DWI, he takes off with his friends and doesn't come home sometimes. Why do I continue to let him treat me that way. I want out, I'm scared, I love him but he always blames me for everything that goes wrong in his life. I don't understand why I'm always trying to make things better when the problem isn't me. I want to break the cycle and just move on, I'm tired of going backward. I want to move ahead!

2007-04-02 05:28:32 · 12 answers · asked by FEDUP!! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so i was going to school this morning and my gf normally parks her car in my driveway but it happenes that my parents are staying with me and their car is in my drive way and she didn't know that so now shes all mad at me. What do I do? Why is she mad?

2007-04-02 05:28:03 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

They tell each other almost NOTHING of what is happening in their lives. I find that to be VERY VERY strange. She said its like if somebody has problems or shows weakness then others will take advantage or use that against them or something.

In my family its like, tell the truth, say what's happening, then if you are hurt or sad or suffering you ask for help , and mostly get help too.

How should I deal with the secrets? Ignore them? Try to get some honest truth? I'm clueless.

2007-04-02 05:27:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

http://www.brides.com/fashion/dresses/gallery/vendor/designer/jimhjelm/detail/127113/?ff=Bride&f=Wedding+Gown+Designer%3AJim+Hjelm+Bridal&max=Wedding+Gown+Designer&offset=23&page=3

I found this dress and it's perfect...my only concern is that I dont know if it really says "hello, Im the bride" enough. I know it doesnt have to, but Im not sure that its "wedding-y enough...if you know what I mean. Kind of like a perfect gorgeous evening gown isnt necessarily a perfect wedding gown. Again, as the bride I know I can do what I want and wear what I want...but I just wanted your opinions. Would you think this dress is inappropriate for an outdoor wedding?

Side note: Im getting married outside in June 08. The gown I would buy is a sample (so it's $1450 instead of $3000)...and I have it on hold for the time being...but thats only for a few more weeks, if that.

2007-04-02 05:20:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have not heard of one marriage of anyone under 55 that did not have at least one adulterous partner.

People treat their kids like BMWs. They have one because the neighbors have one.

Families don't spend time as a family. Everyone is so busy running around.

Divorce is too easy.

Why bother?

2007-04-02 05:18:20 · 21 answers · asked by charlie girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

in the dating bases thing

2007-04-02 05:15:12 · 10 answers · asked by W0Ah 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife moved to another state with her kids, few months back. She just quit her job and move south. We talk and I visit her few time, after a few visits, she turned table. She said that I was causing problems with her kids and family by visiting her. She asked me would I help her sister out, I help and drove her sister and her kids to where she at, few weeks later after I help her sister move. Then she want a divorce, two days later, she want to try keeping the marriage together, after she found out she does not have a job any more, now its been a week since she said that, now she saying she have to sell her stuff and she have to move where her mother is at. She does have her sister to help and no one is helping paying the bills. She got mad few weeks ago when I visit my daughter who live another state, from a prior marriage. She said I disrespected her by going to my daughter’s basketball game. This was her last game of the season. I asked her to go with me, but she did not want to.

2007-04-02 05:12:51 · 8 answers · asked by blkngd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-02 05:11:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"man, he/she would be attractive if it weren't for that nose"!

2007-04-02 05:01:15 · 25 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating