Do you meet the best friends you evr had during high school or after college and stuff, because I'm 15 and the friends I have now are idiot backstabbers and not really true friends. Also how do you get real true friends?
2007-04-02 05:43:23 · 12 answers · asked by becsting 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I met my best friend when I was 33 and she was 30 and we met through friends at work. It takes a while figuring people out, experience actually....I don't know of too many people who are still best friends with someone they met in High School. A lot changes once you get out of school too because you have college and then jobs. The future is going to change so much for you.
To get good friends, you've got to be a good friend. That means, no talking behind the others back, no cheating with their boyfriend or girlfriend (whatever the case may be), being supportive, being reliable. Be nice to the people, show you care about them, really care, and you will find some good friends. If you're meeting some backstabbers, let them go. Nobody needs those kind of people in their life!
Whatever you do, just relax and have fun in life. Don't hurt other people, keep your side of the street clean and everything will be alright!
2007-04-02 05:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by asldfkjdfj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends shouldn't be something you look for, you will just meet then and find that you guys get along, and click.
I remember 15 being a very hard time for me in highschool, and I felt the same. Idiot backstabbers. I promise it will get better, and by university, you will meet a lot of new people!
You can start by volunteering and getting a job to meet new people. I'm sure you will find lots of people who are not idiot backstabbers and are not looking for drama
best of luck! :)
2007-04-02 12:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by melodyxcoated 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As one matures, sometimes old friends aren't as desirable as they once were. When goals, desires, values, etc develop, sometimes the company once kept do not fit in because they are not going in the same direction. Many time as one ages, there is less in common with some friends of our younger years. Many lasting friendships are made after high school. College and the work place were great places to find good friend that I had many things in common with.
2007-04-02 12:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by truly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get real true friends it just kinda happens.I have one friend from high school and I'm 43 now,but we don't see each other very much.I have another true friend that I met in my early 20's, and one I met only 6 years ago.Time doesn't matter.You will meet best friends along the way of life.Don't worry they will be there for you no matter what.And they will come to you.
2007-04-02 12:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friends are definitely not from the time when I was in high school! The best way I know to get friends is by being a friend but not being a fool.
2007-04-02 12:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have one..You will know...You will feel it..I met my best friend when i was 14 or 15 (Im 21 she is 22 now) and at 1st there was nothing...But we found alot in common and started from there..She now lives in North Carolina and Im in New york And still are best friends...We visit each other and still talk on the phone as if were 5mins away...
2007-04-02 12:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by Lady 'S' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your class will have its 10-year reunion, 20-year reunion, and so on. Statistically, about 15- 20% of the class will show up for the 10th, less for the 20th, even less for the 30th.
You'll get to see these people 10 years later after graduation if you show up, and they show up.
If you made a sucess of yourself in the first 10 years after H.S. and they didn't... well, if they didn't, they probably won't show up, but someone will have kept track of them and can tell you about it.
Sorry, I can't help you with getting better friends.
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2007-04-02 12:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by tlbs101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to keep going. u'll meet some good friends. maybe ure just hanging out with the wrong crowd. if the guys u are with are backstabbers then you should get rid of them and find some new peeps to hang with
2007-04-02 12:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by Orion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont go looking for a true friend for some wierd reason u find eachother i have had best friends but right now in my life my best friend is my boyfriend im 28 and i still cant say i truely trust my friends u earn trust give it time u will find them or they will find u
2007-04-02 12:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by lovlyislndgrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you meet the best friends you ever had all throughout your life. you get real true friends by being with them a lot and being yourself. they know you and you know them.
2007-04-02 12:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋