My wife moved to another state with her kids, few months back. She just quit her job and move south. We talk and I visit her few time, after a few visits, she turned table. She said that I was causing problems with her kids and family by visiting her. She asked me would I help her sister out, I help and drove her sister and her kids to where she at, few weeks later after I help her sister move. Then she want a divorce, two days later, she want to try keeping the marriage together, after she found out she does not have a job any more, now its been a week since she said that, now she saying she have to sell her stuff and she have to move where her mother is at. She does have her sister to help and no one is helping paying the bills. She got mad few weeks ago when I visit my daughter who live another state, from a prior marriage. She said I disrespected her by going to my daughter’s basketball game. This was her last game of the season. I asked her to go with me, but she did not want to.
2007-04-02 05:12:51 · 8 answers · asked by blkngd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry, but your marriage is over. Seek legal advice and get the paperwork filed before you get hurt more both emotionally and financially.
I'm so very sorry.
2007-04-02 05:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but it sounds like this marriage is over and she has "reconsidered" only because she has found herself in an uncomfortable set of circumstances that you could help her out of. In other words, she wants to use you for a meal ticket.
She knew you already had a daughter when she married you, right? If she can't respect that you are a parent, she doesn't respect you. Let her have her divorce, but don't let her walk all over you.
2007-04-02 12:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do know what ur going through in a simaler situation look i know u love her but she is stringing u along she sounds like a jelouse type just let it go she only calls when she needs u and love is unconditional u love the person all the time not when its convenient for them get on with ur life its gonna be hard but time will heal the pain
2007-04-02 12:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by lovlyislndgrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it all sounds like she is playing games with you, and it was by no means that you disrespected her you asked her to go and she didnt want to, that is your daughter just as her kids are hers.... its time to get yourself a lawyer and move on ....
2007-04-02 12:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a personal problem to me
2007-04-02 12:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by seeseezsee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt know what she wants. You are wasting your time on someone who cant make up her mind.
2007-04-02 12:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by sticky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is using you. run!
2007-04-02 12:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by R L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never said divorce somes one ....................till now
2007-04-02 12:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋