Family & Relationships - 2 April 2007

It went on for over a year...they never slept together ir kissed.

2007-04-02 21:12:59 · 10 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 23 years old and i love a girl whch she is 25
she has a job and i am still in the uni
and i need about 2 more years to be ready when i told her that i want to marry her she said that she would say yes if i am older than that and she wont wait till i am ready coz she had an ex who made her to wait and left her with another girl so she made a decision that she will never wait for someone,
she said that its not good for a woman to marry someone younger than her is tht true??
we really love each others and we share good times but sort of friends not as lovers but i really love her and she knows
and she loves me as well but today she told me to drop it coz of the age.....and only the age..all what is in her mind is the woman feels bad when she finds her self getting old with a younger man she is 25 and i am 23.. so if anyone can answer me or help me is it ok ?or is it bad or what but u should all know that i love her so much..what should i do,thx

2007-04-02 21:06:43 · 14 answers · asked by Y! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So basically my whole life has fallen apart over the past year. I'm 16 years old and allowed my friend to live with me for about 6 months. She was 17, was very controlling, I felt bad for her and let her live there. She then moved back in with her mother. A week later I found out she was with my dad and since then everything has came out about there relationship. I mean they were even having sex. After he said he was so sorry I told him if I found out that he saw her again i would disown him. Which he did but I didn't. My mother tried killing herself and stayed in the hosp. for a week and just got out. I am no longer in school and I'm only working about 4 hours a week. I got in a fight with this girl even though i'v never fought before. And more drama that can even fit. I used to have the "perfect" life a year ago like one that you would see on a movie. Nothing seems real. I wish I hadn't taken my old life for granite. What would you do in my position with your life.???

2007-04-02 21:05:48 · 17 answers · asked by jessica h 1 in Singles & Dating

He has threatened to take 1/2 the house many times. Since then, he has abandoned me and I cannot even file divorce because I don't know his address so he can be served. What should I do?

2007-04-02 21:04:53 · 13 answers · asked by hydewithpride 1 in Marriage & Divorce

that both a guys mother and father call him every single day?

Would you marry someone that close to his family? Why or why not?

2007-04-02 21:02:33 · 8 answers · asked by SmartAlec 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm sure you'll know what I mean by this. What's your price? Don't give me that bull "I do't have a price." Everyone has a price, what's yours?

2007-04-02 21:01:09 · 16 answers · asked by hop 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend so I am unable to go to her Sorority formal. She has decided to take her X-boyfriend whom she dated during a brief stint when we wernt together. I won her back.
She has jsut informed me that this guy has a girlfriend now, but she will be taking him to her formal. I said absoultuly not, saying that I know what this guy is thinking. She got mad.
In my eyes this scenario can not play out without me getting screwed.
Am I over reacting or do I have the right to be upset, and if she decides to continue with taking him, even though I said it made me uncomforatable, what should I do then?

Additional Details:
We have been on and off for 5 years now, and 2 have been long distance.
She has a small history of being a bit untrustworthy, but i also get jealous easy.

2007-04-02 20:51:56 · 24 answers · asked by EB1285 2 in Singles & Dating

If you had an aquaintance who was seeing someone who'd been abusive in the distant past(like 10 years ago), would you try to warn them?

Dude just hooked up with this woman, I used to live with her. She's abusive, selfish, lazy, and just doesn't think straight. I'm in a healthy, loving relationship, and I really don't bear any grudge toward her, but I feel like I need to warn this guy, who is, for now, extremely happy to be with her (starting off same as the guy who's life she ruined 10 years ago).
Should I warn him and if so, how?

2007-04-02 20:39:51 · 10 answers · asked by Roadpizza 4 in Singles & Dating

you are heading for disaster. My dad was unhappily married to my mum. He later married the lady he had dated whilst be married to my mum. We were all the happier in the end.

2007-04-02 20:32:22 · 14 answers · asked by Flower 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of 14 years left 3 months ago ( we have 2 boys 10&11) He said he was not into me anymore and the family life is not for him. So he moved in with his mother.He is 42. I get child support and he see's them every other weekend. He says he wants to be kept informed about what's going on. I call him when things are going on at school, or the boys are acting up. He says I'll call them tonight, he doesn't. I call him the next day and he says he got busy. He then says I'll call tonight he does not. I tell him that I won't tell him what's going on anymore, he says then don't, what am I going to do about it anyway I don't live their anymore. Our son called him tonite to ask if he would pay for him to play football. His dad was so out of it from partying all weekend with his new girlfriend ( he still lives with his mom ) that he just said no because Your mom won't take you to practice. When I tried to tell him I would, he kept saying I am going to hang up on you. Would you be upset?

2007-04-02 20:19:00 · 22 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

any hints......

2007-04-02 20:16:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so this guy is always doing stuff to me like calling me over to talk to him, hi-fiving me, poking me and pretending it wasnt him and tripping me over as a joke. What can i do back to him? I like him to, so what can i do back?

weird question but i need help!

2007-04-02 20:10:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"you should come to my baseball game and watch me play and we could hang out after" keep in mind im in 8th grade and he is a freshmen..and we just causally know eachother..does this mean hes interested?

2007-04-02 20:08:00 · 8 answers · asked by ♥hp♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Is there a cure? Is there a treatment? What can one do?

2007-04-02 20:07:54 · 17 answers · asked by Larry 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-02 20:04:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean we are pretty good friends and all. I didn't suspect this until lately. She seems to giggle a lot and stuff when I look at her. We always joke around with almost flirting but not really. She ussually takes her seat across from me or next to me at lunch.

But recently, we both went to a party. At the party she asked to dance and stuff. She was pretty drunk, but I was only tipsy. She was pretty touchy feely and pulled me all across the floor and to and fro from the drinks. Also on the way back to home she interlocked arms with me. I took her to her room and stayed with her a while, and fell asleep in her bed (not the first time). I left later when see seemed okay. The morning after she thanked me for taking care of her.

What do you think?

2007-04-02 20:01:37 · 11 answers · asked by RAEJUI` H 1 in Singles & Dating

If I was a dog, I would totally not want to hook up with my bird.

2007-04-02 19:58:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, Im 6 months pregnant, my fiance and I PLANNED this baby.
So, a couple of days ago he starts telling me I dont want him around... which is completely ludarcris...
He got pretty drunk and freaked out and all day continued with this "You dont want to be with me, you would be happier without me" bullshit. He tried to walk down the street twice and I got in the car and went and got him.
I TRIED to tell him I love him, I DO want to be with him, and all that did was make things worse. I was basically begging him to stay.
He got the cops called on him and they took him to jail.
Well, we live 10 minutes away from the jail and I just found out his mom bonded him out tonight. Well he hasnt came by, called nothing..... As the cops were putting him in the car he was screaming he loved me. And now no sign of him.
Has anyone had a similar experience or some GOOD advice as of what the hell I should do??
Is he just saying i would be happier without him because HE wants to leave ME?

2007-04-02 19:56:14 · 1 answers · asked by Jessica W 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

"maybe you could come watch me play baseball and then we could hang out after" does that mean hes interested?

2007-04-02 19:55:08 · 24 answers · asked by ♥hp♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

my dad told me the music i listen to is rubbish but i have to listen to their music all the time in the house and i dont discriminate against it

2007-04-02 19:50:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-02 19:43:28 · 28 answers · asked by $$-PLAYA-$$ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 19:40:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay the situation. I wrote my past flame a note a long time ago saying that "the one that your looking for is out there waiting for you." As in me saying that I'm not the one. But I knew within myself that I am the one that shes looking for and that I didn't mean to write that to begin with because I was mad at a situation. Did that jeapordize my future relationship with my past flame or no? Me tellin her to keep looking for the man of her dreams, when I know that I'm the one cause she told me. Help!

2007-04-02 19:32:15 · 6 answers · asked by Dusher 1 in Singles & Dating

tell me ur experience...don be shy...

2007-04-02 19:29:43 · 17 answers · asked by cindy tan 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl a few months ago...she goes to an out of state school so we dont really see other a lot, hung out during her spring break twice and it was nice...couldnt really sense a lot of flirting or anything, but did notice the occasional glance and look over if u know what i mean. when we talk online we talked about us found out a little more about each other since there is nothing wrong with getting to know someone...but also interests...and she has called me "nice guy" twice but that hasnt happened in over 1 month so thats good...she texts me a lot, well every now and then (she initiates convos), i cant even tell if im in the friend zone.

fortunatley she hasnt called me a "friend" or "brother" crap yet..but i want to avoid that AT ALL COSTS

what are somethings i could do to make sure she sees me as a potential boyfriend, not just a friend...things to avoid, things to do, things to say/not to say, how often to respond back to texts etc? i'm a confused kid.

2007-04-02 19:25:32 · 7 answers · asked by Wayne D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 19:23:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a relationship and recently accepted Jesus into my heart. My question is this, if we have had sex before this change in my life, should I stop doing it? I know that it is a sin, but it seems a little odd because I'm with the same guy, and we've been doing it before all of this? He hasn't put any pressure on me but we still love eachother very much. He is not a born again christian but believes in the christian faith

2007-04-02 19:21:39 · 37 answers · asked by Cutiepie98 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is a divorced woman with two small children. My friend's ex-husband gets the children every other weekend. The ex-husband is engaged to be married next month. They just had his wedding shower last week. My friend and her ex-husband are sleeping together. He calls her on the phone, and he comes to her house. He is the one who iniciates everything.

My friend and I disagree on this situation. I feel that she is as much to blame on the cheating as he is, but she says no. She sees no fault where she is concerned. My friend knows that her ex is getting married next month and knows this girl is planning a wedding. I feel sorry for the fiancee, and my friend says she does to. But it still does not stop her from letting him in the house and sleeping with him. Yes my friend says she still loves him and wants to be with him, but he has told my friend that he IS going to marry this other girl.

Is my friend innocent, or is she just as guilty as her ex?

2007-04-02 19:18:55 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

for both girls and boys

2007-04-02 19:18:00 · 41 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Singles & Dating

she is skinny but really cute. Almost 20 years old but she has little boobs.

2007-04-02 19:14:52 · 43 answers · asked by joan 1 in Singles & Dating