Pregnant, left and confused?

Question

Ok, Im 6 months pregnant, my fiance and I PLANNED this baby.
So, a couple of days ago he starts telling me I dont want him around... which is completely ludarcris...
He got pretty drunk and freaked out and all day continued with this "You dont want to be with me, you would be happier without me" bullshit. He tried to walk down the street twice and I got in the car and went and got him.
I TRIED to tell him I love him, I DO want to be with him, and all that did was make things worse. I was basically begging him to stay.
He got the cops called on him and they took him to jail.
Well, we live 10 minutes away from the jail and I just found out his mom bonded him out tonight. Well he hasnt came by, called nothing..... As the cops were putting him in the car he was screaming he loved me. And now no sign of him.
Has anyone had a similar experience or some GOOD advice as of what the hell I should do??
Is he just saying i would be happier without him because HE wants to leave ME?

Answer 1

Nah insecurities, they happen, espacially when you pick guys that like to get drunk... ether way yea this is going to happening and it forshadows alot more crisis in your guys life to come. But no worries you just need to convice him that he isn't a darn failer and to get over himself. He has a girlfriend that loves him and a baby on the way and he sign'd over his right to hate himself... tell him he needs to get over the fact that you love him this much that your going to have his baby and actual enjoy himself and life.... also this is classic thing to happen and it happens all over the world, just hang in there you've made your bed already, time to ride it out to its conclusion.... hopfully happiness.... good luck, and god bless!