Family & Relationships - 2 April 2007

Any suggestion on what I need to do would be appreciated. Children involved. Found out husband has a drug problem and is becoming very abusive....

2007-04-02 12:07:27 · 8 answers · asked by Kid 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-02 12:02:02 · 12 answers · asked by shine 1 in Singles & Dating

i started seeing this lady for some time , she is beautiful and her character is really good ( god fearing ). that is what made me really attracted to her. i am 26 yr old and she is 32 . i am persuing for a long term relation ship.every time i talk to her i am just confused that should i take her for a date. i think this girl likes me
i dont know much about her past personnel life , . i prefer a girl who didn't have many partners i had only one gf and we got break up and i am just recovering from it.
is there any problem if ur partner is older than u .i dont mean now may be after 15 years, is that ok to ask her abt her personnel life

2007-04-02 12:01:22 · 6 answers · asked by simon l 1 in Singles & Dating

We live in Indiana and I have sole custody of my son and his father only has visitation rights. Is he required to tell me if he takes our son out of state?

2007-04-02 11:58:45 · 11 answers · asked by motoxfan00 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it right that my friends boyfriend is telling me that I'm not allowed to communicate w/ her whatsoever? I mean I love my friend to death and I don't want to lose this friendship because he is saying that. And yesterday he called me while i had a friend over saying that I need to leave her alone because she supposebly "called" him and told him that I called her a lesbian and that I was stalking her which I would never even think about doing. So I confronted her about it and comes to find that she is in New York. And I hadn't even talked to her in over 2 hours when he called me.But when I did confront her I told her that one of them is lying to me and she said that she would never lie to me and of course I would never lie to her. So what should I do? I'm really stressed because of all this and I just can't take it anymore!!!!

2007-04-02 11:57:39 · 9 answers · asked by .Forever Young. 4 in Singles & Dating

my b/f just told me sex with me is a waste of time...... i am now sleeping on the sofa what does this mean? dosent he love me any more? lately he has been acting weird

2007-04-02 11:56:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 11:52:47 · 16 answers · asked by terry l 1 in Friends

My friend recently began talking about my ex bf. We broke up back in october(he ended it)we've remained good friends, i've recently came to the relization that its never going to be and that i don't think i really want him back. I've started to go after this other guy i like now, and i know my ex is jelouse (we are all in the same theater group, so thats how we see each other). My ex is a big flirt and he flirted with my friend the last 2 rehersals. not a terribly great amout, but now i think shes starting to like him. (flirting for him doesnt' mean he likes the girl)I don't think i could handle seeing them together, he was my first bf and we went out for 6 monthes i was in love with him. She said she doesnt' knwo what she woudl do if he asked her out, she lieks this other guy a lot and he knows it. I know that my ex and my friends personalities dont' match, she admited it, but she says hes cute. I can't reallysay don't go out with him cause i'm going after the other guy what do i do

2007-04-02 11:47:14 · 14 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Singles & Dating

This is the second time my b/f and I have dated. During the time we were broken up, he slept with someone else. When I asked him about it he lied. Finally I found out the truth. After about three hours he finally admitted it was the truth. Later though..I found out he was still lying about the details. I still feel like he hasn't completely told me the truth. I don't know if he is still lying or if I am being paranoid. I really love him and want to move past this but I am not sure if I believe him completely.

2007-04-02 11:44:02 · 6 answers · asked by Lips Of An Angel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im told it really doesnt matter..but no way do I believe that....so whats the truth??

2007-04-02 11:42:26 · 24 answers · asked by Mike N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My step daughter has claimed my son has molested her, and everywhere I call doesn't offer help for the accused. I need information and help on how to talk to my son and where to get him professional help. DCFS and the schools are involved. I have no one I can talk to, my husband doesn't want any family to know.

2007-04-02 11:42:12 · 12 answers · asked by Michelle V 1 in Family

I was hanging out with my friend and his girlfriend and we went to a club in LA to meet up with their all their group friends. My friend introduced me to his friends. I said hello and they were all very nice. There were a few girls I thought were very fine. After the club, we went to a restaurant to eat. When we were there, everyone was talking, laughing, and I didn’t really talk to anyone because I didn’t know anybody and I feel very weird. When someone said something funny, I just laughed and went along with the crowd. This girl notice I wasn’t saying anything, and she ask me why I was quiet. Is there a good comeback answer to this question? When I’m in a group, most of the time, I don’t really say anything and I don’t know how I should react, especially when I’m around people I don’t even know. But I want to know them, they all seem very nice. Is there any other way to appear confident without talking? Also, do people interest level go down if they see you not talking?

2007-04-02 11:39:45 · 13 answers · asked by jerry_won3771 1 in Singles & Dating

I know for some this won't sound like a big deal, but i need help b/c i don't know what to do. Please answer seriously. There's this guy, he likes me so when he asked me to hang out i did, i figured it would be a good way to get to know him. I had a great time w/ the guy , he has a great personality and would treat me well. But I don't feel the connection, he's like just good friend material. Now he acts like he's my b/f and he raves to his friends about me. I need to make a decision b/c the way he is acting is making me uncomfortable. Like when i see him i want to go the other way. I don't know what to do, maybe i could get to know him even better and end up liking him or maybe i will never like him in that way.Should i talk to him and say i don't want a b/f now or i feel like we're just friends, or should i let it go and see how my feelings are after a while. I don't want to regret it and miss out on a great guy but idk if my feelings will ever change. What should i say and do?

2007-04-02 11:35:15 · 11 answers · asked by Blossom 1 in Singles & Dating

I deal with this often....I just wanted to get the password for our new laptop so I could do some stuff...download a program, to be specific. We are married for over 5 years, getting seperated at the moment....but trying to be civil until we can get our affairs in order (military, living overseas)....but still, having no respect for me is one main reason why I feel we don't get along....he feels being respectful is kissing my a*s and that I am asking too much...I feel very sad because I love him, but little things like this make me realize why I can't live with someone who can't just say, "Excuse me!" Am I CRAZY, or is he really the victim of an over- sensative woman, like he says he is?

2007-04-02 11:31:57 · 29 answers · asked by Courtney 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seperated from my husband for 4 months now. While we were living together I knew that he used cocaine on the weekends when we went out. I know it was not alot. I did not approve of it but he still did it. Now that we are seperated he uses it even more, where his eyes are almost popping out and he is making gestures with his mouth. I actually feel sorry for him. He also sells it. He does not see my children on the weekends , he prefers to go out and get high with his friends. He does not give me child support either. He is currentlly on probation. The thought of calling the cops or his po officer have came to my mind. I want to do that so that he can stop doing what hes doing... What should I do?

2007-04-02 11:31:26 · 25 answers · asked by Hot MILF 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys confuse me they are never upfront about anything they will flirt but not actually tell you if they like you so how are you supposed to know please guys help me out

2007-04-02 11:29:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 11:29:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 11:27:47 · 2 answers · asked by wontontidbit 1 in Friends

years before u actually did get married, did u expect to get married at the age that u did? Do u regret it?

2007-04-02 11:26:56 · 23 answers · asked by PinkDiamond♥ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister has custody of her 3 daughters in NY State & has been offered a good job elsewhere. How far can she move her family? Her husband has them every other weekend. Any insight or tips/links would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

2007-04-02 11:26:45 · 6 answers · asked by SavageLettuce 4 in Marriage & Divorce

and dont go all obserd on me

2007-04-02 11:26:35 · 42 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2 in Singles & Dating

I let her wear the pants. I find pants quite cumbersome to be honest with you.

2007-04-02 11:25:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-02 11:24:25 · 5 answers · asked by sasha m 2 in Weddings

I am quite upset w/my cousin , his wife & my daughter for them all going against my wishes for my daughter to allow them to supposedly have a temporary custody (verbal agreement for now) to have my 4 yr. old grandaughter. There are many reasons given by my daughter for doing this that I can't go into but basically; depression. She has two other kids 2 yr., & 5 yr. & they all live w/me & only the youngest's father is involved. My cousins mother condones this & they all talk behind my daughters & I back, but my cousin & his wife wouldn't stay away from my house until they got my grandaughter. I hate that my daughter allowed this to happen & am asking her why she didn't let me have her to raise, but she won't talk to me about it. My son & I bother are upset & don't want anything to do w/them as we feel my cousins wife manipulates her in-laws, & whenever I'am w/my grand it hurts too much to send her back to them when I can see she is getting very distant from her immediate family.

2007-04-02 11:23:24 · 3 answers · asked by sissytwo 3 in Family

2007-04-02 11:18:57 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so, i've slept with him for the past three nights, but we havent dont anything besides hold each other. i want to take it slow, because he's tenty-one, and never-been-kissed sort-of thing. but he was stroking my stomach, and then moved a little lower by about an inch-- i was disappointed when he stopped and moved back up because maybe he felt that it was either too soon, or he's never felt a girl who shaves down there.

i dont know. it was kind of embarassing-- even though i did nothing wrong. i guess i kind of wish he knew you were supposed to groom that area, or it gets outa control.. and that i'm not some freak?!


but my main question is, if you were a guy, and it were somewhat your first time doing anything intimate with a girl, would you be weirded out to rest your hand there, and find it shaved?

2007-04-02 11:18:53 · 14 answers · asked by jay 2 in Singles & Dating

I expect this from all my girl friends!

But, why do I get excited, when my guy friend does this?

When,
He knows my Birthday is comming up, or When he ask what I did over the weekend, or how I'm doing in school, or if my family is ok and all!

Why do I get excited?
When he pays attn. to me!

I don't like, like him!
I like him as a friend!

2007-04-02 11:15:36 · 5 answers · asked by jEfFeRsOnAiRpLaNe 3 in Friends

2007-04-02 11:14:20 · 1 answers · asked by more than words 1 in Singles & Dating

... tries to get ur attention a lot and starts random conversations with you for no reason whatsoever and makes a lot of eye contact and smiles and says hi and bye a lot and tries to be funny, like whats up? my friend says this guy does this to her all the time, does he have a thing for her or something? honest answers...

2007-04-02 11:10:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your H2B went out for a quiet drink with some friends for his stag night and told you all about it the next day, then over a week later decided to tell you that they went to a lap dancing bar and his 'friends' paid for him to get a private dance?
He knows I don't like these places and is in a bad mood with me because I'm not very happy about it.
He said he didn't want to wimp out infront of the guys!
I never had a stripper or anything like that for my hen night, not only because I think they're tacky, but I have too much respect for my fiance!
How would you feel?

2007-04-02 11:09:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings