This is the second time my b/f and I have dated. During the time we were broken up, he slept with someone else. When I asked him about it he lied. Finally I found out the truth. After about three hours he finally admitted it was the truth. Later though..I found out he was still lying about the details. I still feel like he hasn't completely told me the truth. I don't know if he is still lying or if I am being paranoid. I really love him and want to move past this but I am not sure if I believe him completely.
2007-04-02 11:44:02 · 6 answers · asked by Lips Of An Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is the second time my b/f and I have dated. During the time we were broken up, he slept with someone else. When I asked him about it he lied. Finally I found out the truth. After about three hours he finally admitted it was the truth. Later though..I found out he was still lying about the details. I still feel like he hasn't completely told me the truth. I don't know if he is still lying or if I am being paranoid. I really love him and want to move past this but I am not sure if I believe him completely.
I forgot to mention that I am not mad about what he did because we were broken up, I am mad that he lied to me about it now. What he did when we were broken up was his choice, but he should have told me the truth.
2007-04-02 11:57:35 · update #1
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Lying is part of that game. Your question should be...why are you still with someone who disrespects you? I know you say you love him, but why? I don't understand how someone can love someone else who lies & cheats on them. How does someone move past lies ; deceit ; and infidelity? Won't you forever question...where he is ; who he's talking to ; who's he spending time with ; is he lieing to you ; are his friends helping him lie & sneak around on you ? Who the hell wants to tolerate that nonsense? Move on & find someone who'll be deserving of your time and love. Find someone who'll be faithful and be honest with you. Don't get locked in with this guy who, obviously, doesn't think enough of you to stay faithful to you or be honest with you! You deserve happiness. Now go find someone honest who'll treat you better.
Good luck. Sorry that you have to go through this.
2007-04-02 11:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Callie ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first, I know it hurts when the person you love does something like that, but ya'll were broken up right? So there is really not much you can do about it, I would let it go. He is with you now so try to get past it, leave it alone.
2007-04-02 11:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Tracy H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a similar situation. Trust your instincts. YOU know whether or not he's lying to you. I know it's hard when you love someone to let them go, but if he's treating you like this he doesn't deserve you. You'll figure it out just allow yourself to.
2007-04-02 11:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Logan and Ella's Mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lied to you. You have to ask yourself, why would he lie to you about the time you were broken up unless it is his habit to lie to you about his sexual trysts?
I wouldn't trust this guy as far as I could throw him.
2007-04-02 11:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by Captain Fluffy Pants 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look for a change in behavior when you ask him about it. most guys when they lie they always have a funny look on their face or seem to start yelling or trying to turn the tables on you. some guys even try to say things to make you feel bad example- what about when you did something. just be serious and watch his facial expressions and actions. because actions speak louder than words. good luck
2007-04-02 11:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by amie d 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Not to answer a question with a question but why does it matter to you what he did while you weren't a couple?
2007-04-02 11:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋