Family & Relationships - 2 April 2007

My dad's second wife was very mean to me when I was younger and he wants to bring her to my wedding. They were married for 8 years and have been divorced for 9 years. He says she has changed and that he loves her. My mother does not want her there and she's paying for the wedding. I believe she probably has changed but I don't know what to do. I don't want to make my mother mad because she has done so much for me, but I also don't want to make my father mad because he is also paying for the wedding. I want him to be happy and I don't want to be a bridezilla. How do I deal with this? I told him how I felt and that I didn't want her to be there but he insists she has changed and he really wants her to be there with him.

2007-04-02 11:09:02 · 27 answers · asked by curly 2 in Weddings

my husband likes other guys looking at me, and even gets turned on with the idea that other guys want me, well he even buys me skimpy cloths to provolk it, it not like he tells me to sleep with other guys, but it makes me feel uncomfterble.
how can I tell him this.

serious anwers only please.

2007-04-02 11:05:59 · 7 answers · asked by jozlilnanjos 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends and I are going to a Tea Party this weekend. It is for one of our friends who is getting married in June. She didnt have an engagement party and we are thinking this Tea Party is like a Bridal Shower. Next month we are spending about $500 each to fly and attend her hens night then the following month we all have to pay even more to attend the wedding with our partners. So what I am asking is, Should I buy her a gift for the Tea Party ? and if so what sort of things do you buy ?

2007-04-02 11:02:30 · 10 answers · asked by answers 4 in Weddings

I was a 19 year old virgin when I started dating my fiance. In the beginning stages of our relationship we didn't discuss how many people he had slept with in the past, but I knew I wasn't his first. When I lost my virginity to him, he said that he wished I would've been his first. Despite what he says to try to make me feel at ease, nothing changes what I was raised to believe. From the time I was a child, I was told that sex is something special you should save for the one you truly love. It bothers me to know that my fiance has had casual sex with people whom he wasn't dating at the time, let alone people he was in serious, long term relationships with. I suppose I would feel better about the situation if I didn't know who he has been with but we run into his past lovers from time to time when we go out and it makes me uncomfortable. I wish we could've been each others firsts but I know that's not an option. I guess I just want to hear from others in my situation. How should I feel?

2007-04-02 11:00:16 · 28 answers · asked by Desiree 5 in Singles & Dating

ok, so i was at my friends house and her mom is divorced and i was staying with my friend while her parents were away and then my friend had to go to dance so her mother took me and her mom said stay with Jason(my friends 17 year old brother) when they left i just started watching tv and then all of a sudden her brother came in wearing a bathrobe and said he just got out of the shower, then he shut the dorr and took of his robe and said ''Get naked I wanna see u naked'' he had a knife so i was scared, I took of my clothes and then he put the knife down and said have u had sex before and i said no and he said well then this will be your first time all of a sudden he started licking my thingy and then he started to ahve sex with me. Please dont mistake this for an inappropriate question becasue i need help, did he rape me? I have never told anyone about this and now he stalks me sometimes what should i do? worse than that i was only 12

2007-04-02 10:59:58 · 16 answers · asked by iluvu 1 in Singles & Dating

I have bad luck with guys, i mean i get approached by them but i come to find out they always have girlfriends. They claim to be in love with them but still want to take me out and spend time with me. Should i take it as a bad thing that im wanted by guys who have gf's or be flattered??

2007-04-02 10:54:35 · 1 answers · asked by *siigh* 2 in Singles & Dating

Normally you give a woman/girl flowers when someone they know dies, but what if it's a guy, and he knew the person really well?

2007-04-02 10:53:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Stories or experiences please!

2007-04-02 10:50:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently had sex with my boyfriend for the first time. & I was really worried it would hurt but when we did it, i didnt feel anything. I didnt bleed or anything. But then when we tried a new possition of me lifting up my legs, it hurt loads. A friend said it happened to her and she had to keep letting it hurt a few times and the pain went and then it felt good. Thing is i dont feel anything when we have sex, we have had it four times not and it dont feel good. And then when we do a possition where he is going straight deep into me it hurts. so do you think i need to get past this pain? and has this happened to any of you? and why do i not feel anything when we do it normally in normal possitions. Is he just not going in at the right angle? Im sorry if this is an akward question lol =] but i really need to know the answer.

2007-04-02 10:46:59 · 40 answers · asked by amyloveanimals 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 10:46:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

note for going the extra mile for you, and the next time you go in to see him, he's there waiting for you...does that mean he likes you?

2007-04-02 10:46:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 10:45:05 · 6 answers · asked by babak r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 21 and am still living at home. I'm the only child and will be starting college in september to get my bsn (bachelor of nursing) degree. The thing is that I will be going to school local, and still living at home; I plan to graduate than maybe live at home until I can get enough money to buy a house, but the thing is my mother does'nt ever want me to leave home. If she had it her way I would be living with her forever, but I don't want to. She's very overprotecting, and I kinda feel dependant on her. Do you think I'm in a strange family situation. Love my mom; but man do I wanna get away sometimes.

2007-04-02 10:44:35 · 18 answers · asked by LG_89 2 in Family

can anyone answer me on this?

2007-04-02 10:41:23 · 18 answers · asked by Jennifer L 1 in Singles & Dating

My wonderful girlfriend and I had been dating for over a year, and so we
decided to get married. There was only one little thing bothering me. It
was her beautiful younger sister.

My prospective sister-in-law was twenty-two, wore very tight miniskirts,
and generally was bra less. One day "little" sister called and asked me
to come over to check the wedding invitations. She was alone when I
arrived, and she whispered to me that she had feelings and desires for me that she
couldn't overcome.

She told me that she wanted to make love to me just once before I got
married and committed my life to her sister.

Well, I was in total shock, and couldn't say a word. She said, "I'm
going upstairs to my bedroom, and if you want one last wild fling, just
come up and get me." I was stunned and frozen in shock as I watched her go up
the stairs. When she reached the top she pulled off her panties and
threw them down the stairs at me.

I stood there for a moment, then turned and made a beeline straight to
the front door. I opened the door, and headed straight towards my car.
Lo and behold, her entire future family was standing outside, all clapping!

With tears in his eyes, my future father-in-law hugged me and said, we
are very happy that you have passed our little test.....we couldn't ask
for a better man for our daughter. Welcome to the family."

And the moral of this story is:

2007-04-02 10:41:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A true marriage is a spiritual sacrament that not only transmutes man’s physical nature, but is the means to bring all levels of Creation together into a singular state of being.

In our endeavor to begin to look beyond the counterfeit facade of what is false and of this world, we must then recognize that words spoken by a priest or justice of the peace -- a formal contract -- or the act of entering into an agreement that is ordained by tradition, culture, or the law of man -- does not automatically invoke the Higher Power of God.

Once properly understood, marriage can in fact be used to put all of man’s interactions with God into a proper perspective -- in that, with growth and work it is a union that possess the possibility of a true marriage being formed, and not a true marriage in the genuine sense of the word by the mere recital of words.

2007-04-02 10:38:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this guy, I am 14 and he is 18, would it be illegal for us to date in WV? Please help!

2007-04-02 10:37:58 · 17 answers · asked by jamie s 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom had put a restraining order on my x-boyfriend last year when i was 16 and he just turned 19. the judge had mentioned that he wasnt sure if i could change it when i turned 17 in october, and i was wondering if anyone knew if i could. im 17 1/2 now and he just had turned 20 a couple days ago. the restraining order is until july, however i would rather it be off. Im not sure if i can get if off now that i am older. There was no abuse or any reason for the restraining order besides my mothers grudge and jelousy towards him. Does anyone know if there's anything i can do?

2007-04-02 10:29:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't know-am I supposed to pick this, or is he?

2007-04-02 10:23:32 · 21 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4 in Weddings

This is a good friend. She is eloping 7/07/07 and then having a church wedding 1/??/08. She doesn't have any money, she doesn't have a church or a hall booked. I am getting married Nov 3, 2007 and she is in my wedding (dress already bought). When I agreed to be in her wedding I thought it was for 1/??/09. Now, I am pressed for money and confused!! She is doing everything backwards and instead of booking a hall or cater she is now picking out bridemaids dress for us to buy!!! If I tell her I can't be in the wedding, she'll be CRUSHED. I keep telling her to book a hall or a cater first- and she doesn't want to listion. I personally think she doesn't have the money for a deposit so that's why she is doing things in this order. And I am afraid she'll have us buy dress and the wedding won't really happen when she thinks it's going to happen because she being soo careless about the hall.
What do I do??
I don't have the time or money for this right now!!??

2007-04-02 10:20:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have a fantasy of my wife making love with another guy. I am not very well endowed, so the thought of her being with a hot studly guy is a big turn on for me, should I tell her about it

2007-04-02 10:20:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you have a single friend who is looking or are you single yourself. Age is from 23-27,single of course. Must love and or like bowling,golf,shooting pool and more. Must live in my area,(Michigan,586 area code or surrounding areas,not to far though)I have done the dateing sites and well, would rather spend the money on you then the site. Let me know.

2007-04-02 10:20:05 · 10 answers · asked by carguyseeksanyone 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex boyfriend cheated on me with my really close friend and we know longer talk. but he has been writing me saying he misses me a lot and he's sorry for what he did. i don't want him back but i want to break him up with his new girlfriend which was my best-friend. i am over him but i want to seek revenge on her for betraying me like that. i truly believe in karma.

2007-04-02 10:20:04 · 20 answers · asked by Rundis19 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 10:19:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, my sister she must hate me like seriously, she told me many times today that she did hate me. I told her that it really sucks to hear that, but i'll pray for her. I really feel crappy. All of this was brought on because she goes to her b/f's house and she'll come home and you know that they messed around, well my mom found out they were messin around. My Gram (mom's mom) died 3 weeks ago so my mom is like sooo sad, and then she finds out this crap about my sis. I think that my sister is sooo selfish. But I lover her. What should i do to make her not hate me anymore? Lotsa answers plzzzz....Thanks

2007-04-02 10:18:49 · 14 answers · asked by Hayley 3 in Family

My brother and his girlfriend just had a baby about 5 months ago. But now they're going through some trouble and she doesn't want to let him see the baby. The thing is that he had to go to work when they brought papers to sign at the hospital and right after he left the hospital was when his girlfriend signed them, but she didn't put his name on the birth certificate. Could she have put his name on it even though he wasn't there or did he need to be there? Because she is claiming she couldn't. But I think she is doing it on purpose so he won't have any rights over the baby. What can my brother do?

2007-04-02 10:18:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Grandma was aware of on going adoption, never fought it, never tried to see them (even before the adoption). Now here we are two years later, the children have been removed from the abusive and drug addicted father, and she has had no contact. Now she wants the kids, I love my kids and want what is best for them, but they don't know her anymore, and I can't guarantee she can be trusted with them..... I just don't know what to do

2007-04-02 10:16:09 · 9 answers · asked by ♥ ~Isabelle's mommy~ ♥ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

FIrst and foremost let me clarify that "The Guy" that is in the wedding as the MAN OF HONOR is FAMILY!!!! He helped me raise my sisters! Yes I realize that I should have had all my sisters as bridesmaids... just like in the beginning I THOUGHT I was having a small wedding. My friends as much sisters as they are friends! These are the people who have been there for me in most ways you can imagine... so yes I picked from a hat. And I did think it was fair.... I am asking what is the best thing to say... not critizim on a day I want to be special to me as well as for my siblings! If you can not be help other than hurtful than DON'T ANSWER!! I would never pick over my blood! maybe I worded it wrong but I truly want my sister to feel included! When you have a family as big as mine, you tend to have some things slip cracks. I never meant to offend anyone can I get some REAL advice? She is 15. My other sisters don't seem to mine, they are still walking down the aisle with wedding colors!

2007-04-02 10:15:38 · 13 answers · asked by Tut B. 2 in Weddings

So I went out on 2 dates with this one guy named "Jay" in January/February and I thought things were going well. Sure enough, his friends stepped in and made things difficult enough to the point where he just stopped talking to me. I was told that he really liked me but he just didn't want anything serious. Fast forward to March and I hadn't had a convo with Jay since Feb 15th. I decided to ask this other guy in my class to Prom in a really cute way & he said yes. This guy happens to be friends with Jay. So out of the blue, a couple of days ago, Jay texts me saying that he heard I asked this other guy to prom and how awesome it was. then he asked if one of my friends had a date to prom yet. What do you all think about that?

2007-04-02 10:12:54 · 5 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

that same week what does that mean. he keep checking you out and you keep checking him out. you wanna say something to him but it just you're too shy to say something.

2007-04-02 10:12:00 · 8 answers · asked by Sexy_Black_Barbie313 1 in Singles & Dating