my husband likes other guys looking at me, and even gets turned on with the idea that other guys want me, well he even buys me skimpy cloths to provolk it, it not like he tells me to sleep with other guys, but it makes me feel uncomfterble.
how can I tell him this.
serious anwers only please.
2007-04-02 11:05:59 · 7 answers · asked by jozlilnanjos 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him that he is not only doing something morally wrong but void of good taste and decency.
We all want to find that our mate is good looking or attractive enough that others wish they could be in our place. But that is our ego.
Simply refuse to go along with this and tell him that you find it rude, immoral, indecent and stupid. Then tell him you will not indulge that fantasy of his. You might also ask him just what his plan is in the event that you attract the attention of someone you find a lot hotter then him?
2007-04-02 11:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are a beautiful woman, he should not do that to you though. Let him know that you are very uncomfortable with this. He knows you are beautiful and he likes it when other men look at you and you are "his" In my opinion you need to sit down and talk to him. Tell him that you do not want any other man, you want him and do not appreciate it when other men gawk at you. If you wanted that you would be single. I am sorry if I crossed the line there. I wish you all the luck hun, take care :D
2007-04-02 19:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by angeleyes818 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told us why don't you tell the guy just the way you told us..If he can't understand then you do have a problem. Tell him that it makes you feel cheap and slutty and you'll have no part of it..
2007-04-02 18:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by buzzwaltz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start buying your own clothes and if he buys you something you don't like tell him and don't wear it. He can only do what you allow him to.
2007-04-02 18:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by wisdom_women 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's doing this to stroke his own ego. Simply tell him that when he does this, you feel disrespected and uncomfortable. Tell it like it is.
2007-04-02 18:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by jdhs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him exactly what you told us above
2007-04-02 18:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him like you asked your question. ask him why?
2007-04-02 18:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by Babe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋