my ex boyfriend cheated on me with my really close friend and we know longer talk. but he has been writing me saying he misses me a lot and he's sorry for what he did. i don't want him back but i want to break him up with his new girlfriend which was my best-friend. i am over him but i want to seek revenge on her for betraying me like that. i truly believe in karma.
2007-04-02 10:20:04 · 20 answers · asked by Rundis19 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
best thing to do - let it go! If you truley believe in "karma" it will take care of itself. It really sounds like you aren't fully over him. If you were, then you would move on and forget him and her.
2007-04-02 10:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by bookworm019 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand where you are coming from, but don't waste your time. It will happen with or without your help. They deserve each other. The only question is which one will cheat on the other first! I believe in what comes around goes around. It's a cliche for a reason - he'll wind up hurt and lonely and most likely sporting an STD of some sort. Relationship karma sorts everyone out eventually.
2007-04-02 12:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes karma is real but you need not lower yourself to get revenge a cheater will always cheat so that is what your x friend has waiting for her don't waste any more time with these losers move on with your life take the high road they will get there's in do time let karma do its thing .
2007-04-02 10:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by delmonticoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't confuse what you expect from someone with what someone really is and provides.
There's in my view the core of your problem and many others the like.
He's not cheated you. He's just plainly done his life. ¿You'd wished a different attitude? That would need a big, enormous change in him. Did you notice people don't change? Look around.
Ok! Look for another man having what you missed in this, because this has has not. Good luck.
2007-04-02 10:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by fedebicho 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The revenge that you seek is only causing you inner turmoil let it go and move on with an open heart and conscience. If he left you he will continue with the same behavior in the future.
2007-04-02 10:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!! This sounds JUST like my situation last summer. The same thing happened to me. I flipped the game back on them and started sleeping with the ex until she broke up with my old best friend and he found out and then I told her to take a hike.
Brillaint move I might add. Made me feel a lot better and got the last laugh. Just have sex with him and make sure the best friend finds out. You'll get our revenge. And oh will it taste sweet!
2007-04-02 10:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by bitchlips411 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What do you do with your cheating ex? Nothing! That's why he's your ex. Let him and your ex bud be. Revenge isn't for you to seek. What goes around comes around. Focus your energy on yourself and whomever else may come along. Do not let anyone steal your good sense or joy.
2007-04-02 10:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by kriskabob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly believe in karma, you should trust in karma to give him what he deserves. Move on in your own life, it shouldn't be up to you to dish out consequences to all who have it coming anyway.
If you do act revengefully, you'll just be bringing negative karma onto yourself. And I don't think that is what you want.
2007-04-02 10:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by Asami 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you believe in Karma honey you would know that you yourself don't need to do anything. They will get there's in the long run.
You should never lower yourself for revenge!
2007-04-02 10:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's sad that I know EXACTLY what you mean.... Been there. The best thing you can do right now is to just let it go. Ignore his letters, emails, calls, IM's etc.. Eventually, he will get his. But at least you're not the evil person when it does happen.
2007-04-02 10:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by Paulyterp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋