my mom had put a restraining order on my x-boyfriend last year when i was 16 and he just turned 19. the judge had mentioned that he wasnt sure if i could change it when i turned 17 in october, and i was wondering if anyone knew if i could. im 17 1/2 now and he just had turned 20 a couple days ago. the restraining order is until july, however i would rather it be off. Im not sure if i can get if off now that i am older. There was no abuse or any reason for the restraining order besides my mothers grudge and jelousy towards him. Does anyone know if there's anything i can do?
2007-04-02 10:29:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are still a minor. You mother must remove the restraining order.
Wait until you are 18 to date this guy. That solves the problem!
2007-04-02 10:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
specific and the order could be valid until eventually you turn 18. At 18 the order does not drop at once except the courtroom order state it, if that have been the case you will possibly might desire to bypass to courtroom to get it dropped. So greater ideal shop a low profile until eventually you turn 18.
2016-11-25 21:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best bet is to just wait it out. your boyfriend is only breaching the order if he is reported by somebody. so if you make it to july and not get caught you are home free. the key is not getting caught. if you get caught, he might be in some serious trouble. i would just tell him to lay low for a few months and keep things hush hush. july is only 3 months plust the rest of april away.
2007-04-02 10:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by Stuart M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mum sounds like a control freak im sorry! Give it till july test this guy to see if he can last thats if you want it off to go out wit him again?
2007-04-02 10:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by just_looking thanx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't be able to change any of that until your 18, or you talk your mother into dropping it.
2007-04-02 10:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
july is not that far away. if you duke it out in court with your mom, it's going to take longer than that to resolve it. wait your turn.
2007-04-02 10:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does it matter? you said he's your ex right? if he's an ex then you aren't dating anyway. problem solved. oh,by the way-if you are dating and you get caught-he's goin to jail.
2007-04-02 14:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never
2007-04-02 10:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by wayne o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋