I have a fantasy of my wife making love with another guy. I am not very well endowed, so the thought of her being with a hot studly guy is a big turn on for me, should I tell her about it
2007-04-02 10:20:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think you need to talk to...a therapist...good luck
2007-04-02 10:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by baseballlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong to have fantasies! Maybe your wife would be interested in doing something like this to full fill your fantasy of her with another man.I would tell her but don't hold it against her if she does not feel the same way or as open to the idea.Because it is your fantasy and still a fantasy but sometimes people are willing to explore and discover what turns each of their partners on.So give it a shot.
2007-04-02 10:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
only if you thing its going to make things hot and heavy between the two of you in bed. It all depends is how openly you and your wife talk about things, if your asking a question here, it means not too open....
She might just think you have lost it. Don't sell yourself short, If your wish wanted to **** a stud, nothing would stop her and she would never till you about it, but she choose to be with your unstudly ***, so be proud of it. Anyway if it makes you feel better, pretend to be the hot, studly guy yourself....lol
2007-04-02 10:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get you. Why would you have a fantasy about your wife making love to another man? That is sick....
If in the other hand, if your wife is ok with your fantasy coming in reality, I say go for it!
2007-04-02 10:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by Victoria78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest to god, man, all 31 of your questions are about your tiny pecker or another guy's package. OBSESS MUCH?
And 15 of those 31 are EXACTLY this question!
Although when you started out it was your wife's fantasy - now you've changed the story and it is your fantasy.
Let's face it - your dick, your wife, and the chances of you ever being straight with anyone are ALL fantasies!
2007-04-02 15:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! She married you and is happy with you. Don't put yourself down! Obviously you are quite capable of pleasing her! What makes you think you are not a hot studly guy to her?
2007-04-02 10:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't tell her...now if it were another chick-that'd be a different story!
If you two have never discussed fantasies before, I don't recommend it. Usually it's best to let her bring up the subject of fantasies first, I think.
2007-04-02 10:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely tell her.......I have the same fantasy even though I'm bigger than you. I think it would be a lot of fun for the both of us. I'd be happy to discuss if you want to IM me.
2007-04-03 04:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u want ur wife to cheat on u in front of u ?
get her a dildo and have fun with that.that comes in sizes so u can chose which u want her to have.
as for telling ur wife, depends on ur relationship. tell her its a fantasy not something u want her to do.
if she married u i am sure she is happy abt ur size or u.
2007-04-02 10:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there's anything wrong in telling her about your fantasy. Acting on it really depends on her if shes ok about it. The last decision will be hers so bottomline is telling her about it wouldn't do damage to the relationship.
2007-04-02 10:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by stilettofan 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
depending if you think that would turn her on to then yeah!...tell her!! sounds like a HOT fantasy to me!
2007-04-02 10:25:32 · answer #11 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋