Is it right that my friends boyfriend is telling me that I'm not allowed to communicate w/ her whatsoever? I mean I love my friend to death and I don't want to lose this friendship because he is saying that. And yesterday he called me while i had a friend over saying that I need to leave her alone because she supposebly "called" him and told him that I called her a lesbian and that I was stalking her which I would never even think about doing. So I confronted her about it and comes to find that she is in New York. And I hadn't even talked to her in over 2 hours when he called me.But when I did confront her I told her that one of them is lying to me and she said that she would never lie to me and of course I would never lie to her. So what should I do? I'm really stressed because of all this and I just can't take it anymore!!!!
2007-04-02 11:57:39 · 9 answers · asked by .Forever Young. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guy is way to controling and your friend needs to dump HIM NOW...
If he separates her from her friends then he'll take her away from her family....she needs to dump him.
I'd tell her how I feel...but she has to decide...and sadly you may end up losing her as a friend...but keep the communication open because at some point she will need you again...Love is cool but sometimes it sux big time...
2007-04-02 12:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's not right. Tell her, without anger, everything he has said to you. He sounds controlling and possibly wacko and maybe even dangerous. Give her all the facts and let her take appropriate action.
2007-04-02 12:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, no one can 'order' you to communicate or not.
I suggest you let your phone take your calls for awhile - screen them and decide who you want to call back.
Stop jumping every time someone twitches your leash.
2007-04-02 12:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It' not a question of right or wrong. Your friend has a decision to make...either you or him.
The only thing you can do at this point is screw things up, just step back and let her choose.
2007-04-02 12:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reading your explanation is stressing. If you've been really good, true friends, her bf can't do anything but she shd. If it comes to it and he persists (like the stalker he's gtn to b) confront him in her prescence.
2007-04-02 12:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by Brown'n 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is truly your friend she should come to your rescue, this guy she is dating should not be the one to dictate who she talks to her not ,have a heart to heart talk with your friend
2007-04-02 12:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boyfriend needs to grow up. He is just jealous of your relationship with her..
2007-04-02 12:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it and if the boi dont like u talking ot her tell him too bad she is my girl!
2007-04-02 12:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by Kaylah S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a jerk he has no rite to say that. your freind better leave him be4 you and your friend get into a fite. tell her wut he's doing. im sure she'll believe you cuz u guys sound really close. so tell her wutz going on be4 he duz anything worse.
best of luck!
2007-04-02 12:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by RAND0M CHiCk_♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋