so, i've slept with him for the past three nights, but we havent dont anything besides hold each other. i want to take it slow, because he's tenty-one, and never-been-kissed sort-of thing. but he was stroking my stomach, and then moved a little lower by about an inch-- i was disappointed when he stopped and moved back up because maybe he felt that it was either too soon, or he's never felt a girl who shaves down there.
i dont know. it was kind of embarassing-- even though i did nothing wrong. i guess i kind of wish he knew you were supposed to groom that area, or it gets outa control.. and that i'm not some freak?!
but my main question is, if you were a guy, and it were somewhat your first time doing anything intimate with a girl, would you be weirded out to rest your hand there, and find it shaved?
2007-04-02 11:18:53 · 14 answers · asked by jay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha. guys make me laugh. thanks.
2007-04-02 11:26:12 · update #1
No, he is just shy. You shouldn't be asking us, you should be talking to him. Then you would know already. If he is shy and you didn't react then maybe he wasn't sure if he was going too far. I think it is sweet. Sounds like he is being respectful, waiting for your reactions.
2007-04-02 11:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by Pooky Bear the Sensitive 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would not find it intimidating or awkward. On the other hand aside from shaving there are going to be many other topics on his mind, the entire situation will be new and he will be less than confident in any action he commits. Let him know that its ok to be open, and explore with you. Encourage and guide him whenever necessary, and allow some leeway for making mistakes. In the end, if you really believe your shaving had a negative effect, ask him if it makes him uncomfortable, and explain why you do it. Being open is one of the key requirements in a relationship. Relax, and be yourself.. help him be comfortable and thats all you can do.
2007-04-02 18:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by ifreedthechicken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me. I've always loved it. I have always thought highly of girls who clipped, shaved or waxed. A real turn-on for me.
Your BF may not be that experienced and might have been surprised, or not known what to expect. Next time why don't you just tell him, "Hey, I shaved down there because I like to be neat, and it feels good". Then if you want him to touch you, just gently take his hand and slip it down lower.
You can also give him a little hint by rubbing his stomach and get the process going from that direction.
2007-04-02 18:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am a guy and if somewhat my 1st time yes i would kind of feel weird bout resting my hand down by where the girl/woman have shaved there..i dont know why maybe kuz u know like me i have never been with a gurl with a shaved private part but i guess u know it depends on the guy i guess
2007-04-02 18:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sean S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really make any difference with me but I know that people differ on what turns them on vice versa. However, if the guy is fixated on hairy babes but finds the place bare, he might be turned off and if he has never ever imagined a shaved girl(down there) and you are shaved, he might think that you are a bit weird and a note of caution will immediately sound in his brain turning him off.
2007-04-02 18:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by comradechris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is not "weirded out", every guy not living in a cave know women mow the lawn.
He is too shy and afraid to do something wrong so you won't like him. Why don't you talk the lead and jump on top instead of just lying their making him nervous. Clearly you want to have sex with him, there is nothing wrong with you being aggressive...men actually like that in a woman.
2007-04-02 18:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He moved his hand down that low to see if you would stop him and to test your response. Your response would tell him how far you were willing to go.
By not responding at all, he would have to guess how far he could go without "offending" you. Most likely he just didn't want to take any chances. If you want him to go further, you'll have to warm up to his touch and let him know by your body language that you are enjoying it. It will turn him on. No response at all is a turnoff.
2007-04-02 18:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I would because I wouldn't know if you wanted it and I wouldn't want to make you feel weird
2007-04-02 18:22:56 · answer #8 · answered by lordguatama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shaved is the best.
2007-04-02 18:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, but "outa control" is great as well.
2007-04-02 18:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋