my b/f just told me sex with me is a waste of time...... i am now sleeping on the sofa what does this mean? dosent he love me any more? lately he has been acting weird
2007-04-02 11:56:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If my husband said that to me, I wouldn't be sleeping on the sofa, he'd be sleeping ON THE FRONT LAWN....don't take that crap ....that was an awful thing to say....you deserve ALOT better.....let him talk to someone else that way....
best of luck
2007-04-02 12:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by nemofish 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was good once, he is either tired of you or he is cheating. Since I don't know what your abilities or performance is like in the sex department, I would recomend that you watch a few good porn flicks, just to see if there is anything in your lovemaking that might be lacking. If that is not the case, then it's time to move on.
2007-04-02 19:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're sleeping on the sofa!?! He isn't because? Okay shall I slap you for going for a jerk or not being able to understand simple I don't messages, it's not exactly a complicated code is it.
2007-04-02 19:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, we do get bored about each other and would not be easily aroused by our partner because of the constance of the relationship. This is the inevitable result.
He might not be physically attracted to you now but as you give him space to cool off, he would bounce back. The situaton is thereefore transient ok!
2007-04-02 19:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by comradechris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, this sounds like an ignorant cheating mandevoshka to me. dump him.. then move out. next time show up at his favorite place,and be like LOUDLY"ohhh damn i'm sorry, you really were a waste of time! wow! you know they have condoms for small wee things like you right?" sail past and dance with the new guy. YEAH.
2007-04-02 19:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing can be salvaged from this situation but your dignity. That can only be saved if you break up with him now.
Don't take it personally if he said you were bad in bed. If he couldn't communicate his wants with you prior to this then he is no lover either. Get a real man.
2007-04-02 19:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by Pooky Bear the Sensitive 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
THE FACT THAT HE TOLD YOU THAT SEX WITH YOU A WASTE OF TIME YOU REALLY TELL YOU SOMETHING. HE PROBABLY DOES NOT LIKE YOU ANY MORE. OR IS GETTING SOME SOME WHERE ELSE. SORRY
2007-04-02 19:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by LOVE 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow....you totally need to leave this jack a**. It sounds to me that he is involved with another girl...he's inconsiderate of your feelings and has checked out of the relationship. Tell him you cant date a jerk and go find yourself a man who is worthy of your affections.
2007-04-02 19:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by shellygrrlrox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he meant he needs more of something during sex. Men like variety sex. Ask him to explain because we are not physics. we can't read their minds.
2007-04-02 19:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would tell him he is a waste of time...why set and let him down you like that..putting you on the couch is like saying he is the ruler of you...get out of that relationship noone deserves that kind of treatment
2007-04-02 19:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by sonialynnl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋