2007-04-02 20:04:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go on a holiday and get out of the environment for a couple of days. Drink a little. hang out with supportive friends. See some really cool sh@%.
2007-04-03 01:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by Shootsscores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want the marriage or want to try to save it in any way. then try to relinquish the marriage. You married him for a reason, That person is still there and you are still in there, try doing something that you both enjoyed at one time. Or maybe get a room, (secretively) have a friend call him and tell him to meet at the hotel room #, friends having a stripper over, and if and when he call you tell him whatever. (more then likely he won't call) then get a ride from someone to the room. and get sexy girl. Make him want you! Come on marriage is spouse to be a sacred once in a life time thing. It was right once and it can be again. Don't give up so easily.
2007-04-02 20:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by brandy5474 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was unhappily married, so I got divorced, but not on my birthday, but very close to New Year's Eve. So that was the best New Year present I could give myself.
2007-04-02 20:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jasmin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I didn't want to spend it entirely with my spouse, I'd let family or friends know that I wanted to get together with them for my birthday. That way you could mingle and have a good time while your spouse was mingling elsewhere at the same get together. After celebrating your bday, it would be a good idea to sit down and talk to your spouse about your marriage. You don't want to have to ask this question again next year. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-04-02 20:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by Czech Chick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my husband is willing to celebrate with you, then I'll spend time with him, even if I'm unhappily married. If he doesn't even care, then I'll just go out with my friends and have some fun. Oh, If you're unhappy with him, why are you still with him? I guess you have your reasons , but HAPPY BIRTH DAY!^^
2007-04-02 20:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by rain ;';';';'; 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At one of my favourite places, particularly a a club where you can enjoy being unhappily married ;) for the night and then get set on that divorce ;)
2007-04-02 20:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by Giraffe 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i spend that day by myself to go to a spa and have an hour of massage, do a body wrap, have a manicure and pedicure and hair done, eat a at fine restaurant (probably lunch) and stay the night at a 5 diamond hotel and finish the night with chocolate covered strawberries and drink a glass or two of champagne...
2007-04-02 20:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by ogg08 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Either seriously reconsidering my marriage or at a marriage counselor.
Or maybe spicing up things in the bedroom, sometimes that helps a marriage, and it makes for a fun birthday.
2007-04-02 20:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Pea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At home serving cake and ice cream to my family. Birthdays keep on coming whether you are happily married or not. So
Celebrate regardless.
2007-04-02 20:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by maybelline512 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask some of your friends out and have a nice meal followed-by some drinks at a pub or something. Be cautioned not to get drunk.
2007-04-02 20:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by SGElite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋