Family & Relationships - 2 April 2007

Im attracted to an older man, for first time but have no idea how to approach the situation.

2007-04-02 17:59:03 · 11 answers · asked by katy 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, i liked this girl alot and we good until out of nowhere we just broke me and I still like her, it has been like 4 months and i still like her alot! I am going to start seeing her (not dating, just actual seeing) and I want to know what I should do to help get us back. I appreciate all SERIOUS answers.

2007-04-02 17:56:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 17:56:02 · 32 answers · asked by lionking_lolhehe 2 in Friends

no GRANDCHILD yet.

2007-04-02 17:55:02 · 15 answers · asked by emma l 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-02 17:54:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it true that if your married to someone who owes child support and if they dont pay, the other spouse have to pay his/her child support?
Im not going to pay for a kid that's not mine!!!

2007-04-02 17:54:57 · 53 answers · asked by lovejrsmeat07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this ex and we broke up becuase he was cheating on me and seeing other girls for the last seven months we were together. i didn't even find out from him that we had broken up, but from the biggest loud mouth at our school. two days afterwards he was making out with another girl right in front of my locker. i want to make him feel bad. how do i do this? make him insanly jealous and then not take him back when he comes to me. is this too harsh? if not then how do i go about doing this? ok guys, so what could a girl do to make you jealous?

2007-04-02 17:52:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have been married 6 yrs getting a divorce not a good relationship he cheated and got his ex. wife pregnant. I had a long standing on an off affair with an ex.bf that i am 100% sure he is father of my 3 yr old son because i was seperated from my hubby when son was concieved.I had a paternity test done just to make sure.Doing a paternity test on my daughter 5 yrs old revealed she is the product of the same affair sons blood was used for the test.My ex.bf has been married 4 yrs to someone else she cant have children(or not likley) as a side effect of yrs of taking the pill .I do not want to hurt this woman is there a way for me to alert the other man get child support and her not find out?

2007-04-02 17:52:01 · 13 answers · asked by Bella C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what age does a guy think he would like to be married by?

2007-04-02 17:51:56 · 7 answers · asked by loveendswithguns 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, here is what is going on, a friend of mine I have known for years, and rember she is a FRIEND, and we don't know each other to well, its more like she is a friendly face in town.

Not that I wouldn't up an elope with her, but this is the weirdest I have ever noticed her act.
Has recently started always bringing up marriage, and being very generous in giving things to me, even bringing up the words "anything I want" if I ask her for a favor.
I have heard it said you will know the woman that you will marry by the one that speaks to the king in you.
But, just in case, I just need to know her intentions.

Since this is already fairly strange for her in the first place, I decided to ask any, and all people if you where hinting at marriage what clever tricks would you use?

I need all tactics, tricks,tips, evil, clever, devil woman, flattering,deceptive, praise,sugar talk, elusive, A,K,A how would you hook a man with your magic charm touch.

2007-04-02 17:50:44 · 8 answers · asked by chaznc_28607 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay heres my situation. I just recently got back together with a girl I had been going out with for awhile but then she broke it off. We have known eachother for 7 years, since we were 7, and always liked eachother, but had only been going out for about 5 months.
Problem is, my best friend doesnt like the fact im going out with her because she kept afew things from me, like how she had gotten drunk and lost her virginity the summer before we got together the first time. But she did tell me when we got back together.
Shes good friends with my friend, and she had said she was worried us being together would ruin her friendship with my friend. She also has said over the phone that her friendship is more important than us being together, but whenever she sees me she takes it all back. She recently asked me over the phone if we would still be friends if we broke up, because when we broke up the first time I pretty much stopped hanging out with her. Im wondering what I should do.

2007-04-02 17:47:47 · 10 answers · asked by Mr.Right 2 in Singles & Dating

Im a newlywed as of 5 months. I love my husband and I cant imagine my life without him but sometimes when he tells me he loves me I dont say it back or I do say it back but then i wonder to myself if i mean it. I know I dont want to live with out him and I dont regret getting married but I suffer from mild depression and i wonder if that has anything to do with it. I want to love him i just dont know what to do!

2007-04-02 17:44:42 · 12 answers · asked by juno 2 in Marriage & Divorce

before we got engaged, my gf cheated on me with a guy from work, but only told me she did after 6 months.( she herself told me.. i never had to ask her) i forgave her and we carried on... then we got engaged,,, and she cheated on me again.. not once.. but atleast about 6 times.. with another guy from work... i dint know.. she suddenly asked me if we were too early to be enganged... and she said she has this attraction for another guy(2nd guy).. the thing is i always told her be honest with me and ill forgive you.. now i feel thats a mistake..? what do you think?? is she worth forgiving?? she also says she has a problem of craving attention and she wants to work this out.

2007-04-02 17:34:19 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, someone tell me what's going on. this guy is in my college and he doesn't know me and we never talked. whenever he's with his friends, and he sees me, he points me out to his friends. But, I just ignore him and his friends and just do my thing. after 3 times of coincidently seeing him again, he still points me out to differnent people he talks to. then, one time, he was alone and he gave me this look as if he feels sad. is that a trick? i mean why would you feel sad when you don't know the girl...? then one time saw him again and he sat there looking at me, sort of frustrated and just plain staring at me pissed. the last time I seen him, he was with some other friends and smiling and making his friends look at me again. now, what do you guys think the guy would do next? give up or what? what do you think I should do? I don't know him, but i think his cute, but he is an acquintance.
he's the jock type and not shy at all. but so am I, not shy and I'm like the cheerful cute type

2007-04-02 17:32:33 · 2 answers · asked by yennay 3 in Singles & Dating

My bf of almost 3 years had an emotional affair with a co-worker. We broke up after he told me about it for about 3 months. We decided to get back together and then we were engaged 5 months later. but i haven't been able to trust him 100% since we got back together. Since then he has found another job but he now shares and office with another women and i am unsteady about his partnership with this women. I love him and he loves me. I am always questioning him about the women that he talks to and checking his cell phone. We have been fighting alot the last couple of month and recently broke up again but he is still living with me since I was laid off from my job. He feels that he needs to stay and help me withthe bills until I get back on my feet. We are also talking about how can we fix this situation, but he tells me that he needs to feel trusted again. How do i learn to trust him again?

2007-04-02 17:30:02 · 15 answers · asked by stephanie r 1 in Singles & Dating

At work tonight, I called my fiance to ask him to pick me up from work b/c I am sick and did not trust myself to drive home without passing out behind the wheel. But he then informed me that he was staying at his best friends house overnight b/c they were going to have a few drinks and he didnt want to drive. Rather than cancel his plans and make sure I was ok, he ended up going to his buddy's b/c "it's his only night off of work this week." Do you think I am being to hard on him or are my feelings justified? I don't care that he hangs out with his buddies, in fact we all are friends, and they come over to my place atleast six nights a week. All I was asking for was a little TLC while I am sick........

2007-04-02 17:28:47 · 14 answers · asked by Jean Marie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live with a woman who was married over 30 years, and her husband left her and 3 daughters declaring he was gay. It has been a roller coaster ride. She has problems showing appreciation when I do something for her. I really love her and I guess I need to know if maybe I am putting too much importance on a thank you when I do something nice. It kind of hurts my feelings when I shop, and prepare a fine meal, and dont even get a thank you. Please tell me what I need to hear.

2007-04-02 17:21:42 · 4 answers · asked by john c 2 in Singles & Dating

Lets say that We've met in our hard times,Me, being separated and Him, recently broke up with his X.1st 6 months of being friends, he s so mean to me...but I accept all that coz love him.soo much. He even like shout at me over the phone and told me straight he loves hs X.But he calls me evryday.HE even cry to me if he cant take the pain n his heart. Although Hurts killing me, i stay as a friend, he knows i love him...But then,,,time came that i have to leave coz i feel like im used.He dont love me but he cant let me go...he wish for me but im not in his heart...I didnt call him for more than a month,then, he start emailing me,calling me even in my office,telling me and begging me to call him.to answer his emails and calls,,,but i act like cold..but since i love him, after a few weeks i talk to him, he says I miss you...then start of our everyday conversation again.I know he stil luv his X but he cant let me go.....

2007-04-02 17:19:57 · 13 answers · asked by Mikaella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Did I make a mistake?
She is hot, if that makes a difference. . .

2007-04-02 17:16:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and him have been friends since the beginning of the year 2006. and i have liked him ever since...but what really hurt me was that he asked out my very best friend and she said yes. and now that they have been broken up for a while...i have been letting him now how i feel. and i have even came out and told him once. but he keeps flirting with me and even tho he had no reaction when i told him how i feel...i still love him and i just wish that he would give me a chance. how do i get him to do that? and how do i truely show him that i want him to give me a CHANCE like no other man has....they judge me from what they hear...not from what they know...and he is the only one who does NOT do that.

HELP ME PLEASE!

2007-04-02 17:15:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to be a nurse or a therapist.

2007-04-02 17:09:23 · 14 answers · asked by mommyof2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My family has never had a good family past and now I feel things have gotten worse. Every year, all my life, my father's had a new girlfriend. He has never really loved them. This year I'm in the 8th grade and during my spring break I had gone up to Crested Beutt, Colorado to snowbroard. Apperently on March 12, the day after I had left my father had got married to his girlfriend and didn't tell anyone. I didn't find this out unti 5 weeks later. What makes it worse is that his "wife" doesn't like me and she does mean terrible things to get between me and my father. When I was living with my father I was forced to play with her kids, I had to play what they wanted to play, I had to take them to the park when Kirsten didn't feel like it. Dad doesn't truelly lover her it's just like all the others where she'll bleed him dry and then leave. right now I'm torn I don't know how to deal with this large hand that life has delt to me. Someone please help me...

2007-04-02 17:00:34 · 8 answers · asked by Miss. TG 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend is nice but she talks behind everyones back!! even mine somtimes and says mean things................should i dump her or just wait and see if thing change?? or help wat else should i do!

2007-04-02 16:49:28 · 41 answers · asked by Becky 2 in Friends

2007-04-02 16:46:21 · 2 answers · asked by James K 1 in Singles & Dating

ok let's say you have this friend that is gay and you have the biggest crush on him, but you know nonthing could ever become of it, right....... but lets say one night you and him are home alone watching a movie together when he asks you, " let's do it, i wanna see what the rage is about being with a girl" do you do it are do you say, " no " , or do you jump up screaming " ewwwwwwwwww" and go home.

?what would you do?

2007-04-02 16:40:58 · 26 answers · asked by CJ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, my friend is having a problem. shes a smart, athletic, and good looking 19 yr old. she hasnt had a bf for quite a while and she blames it on the fact that shes really quiet. i try to explain to her that she just looks uninterested in guys so they leave her alone but she continually puts herself down and says shes never going to find the right guy. so guys, is being shy really a turn off or does it just make that person difficult to approach? and what advice could i give her to help her be more open to ppl and get a bf?

2007-04-02 16:30:53 · 5 answers · asked by Lizzy S 2 in Singles & Dating

-guys plz answer

2007-04-02 16:27:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 16:22:36 · 16 answers · asked by niceguy 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm an email girl and i don't even own an address book. i have 125 guests and don't know a single address, even my sisters. how do i obtain these. do i send an email saying i need your address to invite you to my wedding?

2007-04-02 16:20:37 · 7 answers · asked by Susan 2 in Weddings

Okay, I like this girl at school and she know that i like her and i cant get her out of mind its like she has some kind of control of me. THink i should ask her out. And how should i do it.

2007-04-02 16:17:32 · 10 answers · asked by Tech boy 2 in Singles & Dating