Im a newlywed as of 5 months. I love my husband and I cant imagine my life without him but sometimes when he tells me he loves me I dont say it back or I do say it back but then i wonder to myself if i mean it. I know I dont want to live with out him and I dont regret getting married but I suffer from mild depression and i wonder if that has anything to do with it. I want to love him i just dont know what to do!
2007-04-02 17:44:42 · 12 answers · asked by juno 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What youre feeling is quite normal among newly weds like yourself. The honeymoon period is just about to end and this is where true love sets in and everyone goes thru this and survives. You will to. Now you will begin to set patterns with each other, get more comfortable with him that will follow you the rest of your lives. These depression feelings will pass soon and you will really begin to build your married world together. Be patient and good luck
2007-04-02 17:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a newlywed and we are about to make 2 months. so i sort of understand what you are feeling. i always say i love you back because that may be your last words to this person. i have realized that you can never say i love you too much. you might just be realizing that you are with this person forever now and it is different from just being in a relationship with a boyfriend. give it time. it may need some getting used to. good luck and i hope everything goes well.
2007-04-03 00:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by lc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've gone through the same thing and I ended up divorcing him only to find that was a mistake and we are together again; I suffer from depression and I wasn't taking anything for it then, I actually didn't know, I just thought I was unhappy. I knew I loved being with him and missed him when I wasn't with him but I was also unhappy and figured it was the marriage.
2007-04-03 00:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by strawberry 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seek help for your depression. That may be the root of your problem, for the feelings your having for you husband.
If you're already unhappy, it will merely bleed over into your relationship. Start with a complete physical, and testing to ensure that you dont have a chemical/harmonal imbalance.
2007-04-03 01:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your depression may be robbing you of all the good feelings you should be having now! See a Dr, don't let it get to the point where it is ruining what could be a very good thing! You love your husband, depression can distort that!
2007-04-03 00:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you love him, but you're still dealing with the fact that you've entered a new stage in both your lives. Personally I'd see this as a good sign. You realize the significance of your commitment. If when he said he loved you, you just waved and said yeah, yeah, yeah, I love you too, then there might be a problem.
2007-04-03 00:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Nels N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are still suffering from cold feet. If you suffer from depression you should probably talk to your doctor and get on some type of medication. It may help you immensely!
2007-04-03 00:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by chunkysmom3502 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it norma to feel this way you are still newly married, so just take the time to love your new husband. but if you are feel
drepression then talk to someone there could a good
reason that you are have these feeling.
2007-04-03 00:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its OK just go by what your heart feels .No need to start faking your marriage already
2007-04-03 00:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess its sorta like second thoughts. but you seem to love him a lot, and maybe you need reassurance and stuff. making sure that he loves ya too....LOL. just think, you are able to overcome it all and still are married to him. dont worry, i think its just cause you have been married to him and at times its like what am i doing. just trust yourself things will go ok...DONT WORR!Y!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-03 00:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by roxygirl2828 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋