2007-04-02 16:22:36 · 16 answers · asked by niceguy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They are looking at you, hoping you will talk to them. It will be difficult at first, but go for it. Don't be shy and don't worry about rejection. Go for it. I bet you are adorable, or they would not be looking at you.
2007-04-02 16:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The trick is to find your edge while maintaining your friendliness. Women want the alpha male type of guy who's confident, dominant and manly. But they also want that sensitive guy to listen to them and care for them. It's quite obvious that 'nice guys finish last'. If they didn't, the saying wouldn't exist so I think there's some truth to it...not always true...but there are some themes we can dissect.
The first is, at the core of every guy is a survival mechanism. We all do what we can in life to survive in this world, we go to school so we can work, work so we can eat, eat so we can live.
Bad boys seem to mold the environment around them. They say what they want, do what they want and get what they want. They make the rules and break the rules and don't follow them. Women are drawn to dominance because these types of men seem like they're going to protect and provide in life. These bad boys seem like nobody can hurt them and that's a comforting feeling for women. They like to confide in men who seem stable like that.
I've often heard girls say that they like being with their bad-boy boyfriend because they know that knowbody will mess with them when he's around. I've been told by x-girlfriends that they like it when I get angry...or when I compete in a sport really hard and sweat. I've had girls slide their finger down my chest after a long run and tell me that it reminds them of 'sex sweat'.
Pay attention to the guys who pull the most girls in your school. Find yourself some edge but don't change. Just become more edgy.
Women want a bad boy who treats them like a nice guy would. They want a combination of the two: a bad boy in bed and a good guy for long talks on the pillow afterwords. If you don't get to the bed, you ain't gettin' to the pillow. Catch my drift?
2007-04-02 16:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by bradpittstuntdouble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. One day when a girl is looking at you ask her out and see what happens.
2007-04-02 16:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by cat12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they like what they see. Talk to them and see what is on their mind. They may want you to ask them out or something. Do you want a girlfriend?
2007-04-02 16:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Shanna h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to start hanging out with the girls who don't look down on you...and start interacting more and make sure you have good hygiene and don't smell...not saying you do...but its never a good thing lol
2007-04-02 16:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u need to take action and actually try to get there numbers down. go out on a date or something.....dont feel bad its natural or mabey u just dont want 1
2007-04-02 16:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will never get a woman if you don't know why the ladies are feeling you
get some self esteem
2007-04-02 16:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might possible be attractive or may be they look at you wondering why you don't have a girl friend.
2007-04-02 16:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bcuz you look lost may be or they might be interested in you.why don't you try one of them?
2007-04-02 16:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by alec. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabe u always get something on ur shirt.. or mabe ur hott
2007-04-02 16:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by luhb u much!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋