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Ok, here is what is going on, a friend of mine I have known for years, and rember she is a FRIEND, and we don't know each other to well, its more like she is a friendly face in town.

Not that I wouldn't up an elope with her, but this is the weirdest I have ever noticed her act.
Has recently started always bringing up marriage, and being very generous in giving things to me, even bringing up the words "anything I want" if I ask her for a favor.
I have heard it said you will know the woman that you will marry by the one that speaks to the king in you.
But, just in case, I just need to know her intentions.

Since this is already fairly strange for her in the first place, I decided to ask any, and all people if you where hinting at marriage what clever tricks would you use?

I need all tactics, tricks,tips, evil, clever, devil woman, flattering,deceptive, praise,sugar talk, elusive, A,K,A how would you hook a man with your magic charm touch.

2007-04-02 17:50:44 · 8 answers · asked by chaznc_28607 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

Yes, I agree Kelly with the meet the price, currently my friend, she, and I seem to be the only two we know single of the same age in a college town full of younger people.
She is fairly good looking, most guys around town want her for something else other then marriage, I know she is depressed about it.
And, I am the only person that doesn't present myself as after any thing from her.

And Arthur W, I think you might be right.

2007-04-02 18:07:36 · update #1

NOTE, me, and this woman both are IN OUR 30's. We are not teenagers, or 20' somethings, and we are both unmarried without kids...

2007-04-02 18:15:20 · update #2

Great answers so far, I am trying to make sure I do not flatter myself, but if you all give me more answers, I will be soon working on pursuing her starting as soon as tomorrow.
I just do not want to assume anything, besides me, and her need to get more involved with one another before I pursue her more intensely.
I do not do anything without knowledge about a situation. And if she is hinting towards marriage from basic friendship, I prefer to slow her down just a little bit.
I am open to one day settling down, especially to a woman unmarried without kids, I like to have my own kids, not marry someone with them already.
I just want to make sure the hint, is The Hint.

Thanks for all answers, keep answering???

2007-04-02 19:25:32 · update #3

8 answers

Hinting at marriage? Jeez, dude. Why would we need to hint? If you want to get married, you talk about marriage openly. If a couple can't talk about marriage without the stupid romance game, then they are making a huge mistake getting married!

2007-04-02 17:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First of all, I would be dating the person I would hint at marriage to.

My boyfriend and I always talk about marriage. We've been friends for a long time before we started going out. And we've been together for over a year.

We bring up marriage by saying, "Oh, our kids our going to be like that" and stuff like that. That's not really hinting at marriage... it's actually talking about it. But that's just what we do.

I DO have a friend though that likes to play around sometimes like that... like "If you're single, you should marry me." He and my boyfriend even mentioned it. My boyfriend just says, "Ya gotta meet the price first." lol.

2007-04-03 00:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0 0

i always talk with my bf =we always chat= about kids, family and how our kids would be like..if they would take my fiery temper or his, how they would look like and if they would be litte Ingrid's and Chris-es or what names would go with the kids. we do not hint about marriage rather maybe settling down after both of us are done with school and have a good caree and job. just because she talks about marriage does not mean that she wants to settle down at the moment but rather she is giving you an idea of what she wishes for in the future. do not take her words seriously but rather as a sign of what she wants...if she wanted to marry you by now she would of suggested more hints: the kind of ring, her wedding plans, colors of the wedding as well as how many people would be attending and the whole 9 yards

2007-04-03 01:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0 0

Better wake up here. Every woman wants to be married and have her own family. Once she feels she has found a suitable mate and sinks her hooks in, watch out an it seems like she has her sights on you. Youll know one morning when you wake up and theres a gold ring on your left hand that she not only hooked you but reeled you in too. It just comes down to what do you want here? Good luck

2007-04-03 01:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0 0

I've never done it, but I have a friend who didn't listen to the hints "I want us to move in together", I'm to old for a 'boyfriend' ", "you are my soulmate". Next thing he knew, she was pregnant and tellinghim he HAD to marry her. stupidly he did. He has been miserable for 3 years now, but can't get himself to leave her. (thinks his image will be tarnished)

Don't try to read hints. If you like this woman, ask her on a real date...something romantic. Take it slow and be open and honest with her and if she values and respects you she will be with you also.

I have a friend who hung out with a guy friend for years, always telling him what a terrible time she had dating the wrong guys. (he was a shouulder to cry on) Next thing I know, he asked her out and they are married now 8 years!!!

2007-04-03 03:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by sweetsouth 3 · 0 0

I am also in my 30's. I was remarried two years ago. Women in their 30's want to be married! Her biological clock is ticking! You sound like your the only one who is respectful to her. That is why she is hinting at marriage.

2007-04-03 01:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by Gidget 3 · 0 0

When they say that they want to get married.

Do not try to read into a woman's hints cos you are sure to get it all wrong :0) lol

2007-04-03 01:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

start with dinner and dating! then take it from there. no need for hinting, as you said, you are both in your 30's ... so no more games. be open to each other.

2007-04-03 02:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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