ok let's say you have this friend that is gay and you have the biggest crush on him, but you know nonthing could ever become of it, right....... but lets say one night you and him are home alone watching a movie together when he asks you, " let's do it, i wanna see what the rage is about being with a girl" do you do it are do you say, " no " , or do you jump up screaming " ewwwwwwwwww" and go home.
?what would you do?
2007-04-02 16:40:58 · 26 answers · asked by CJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Me, I'd say no. I wouldn't want to be some guy's (gay or not) experiment. Think - would you risk your friendship for the chance of sex with someone who doesn't even find your sexuality attractive? Now if he said he had feelings that he might be bi, and that he feels attracted to you, or feels it could be an expression of your friendship, maybe you would have to weigh up how you feel against the possibility that it might be a one off, not so good thing. Up to you, but if you do decide to go ahead use condoms. Always take care, B
2007-04-02 16:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is gonna do what is right for them...what you gotta keep in mind is what's gonna be right for you.
Look at it from the future perspective looking back...Will you regret it? Will you be happy that you did go through with it? How will it feel if you do have sex with him and later on it hits ya that there were no emotional ties between you two...he moves on, but what about you? How do you think you'll feel about it when you're feeling like your gonna get married so someone later on in life?
Sometimes desicions made "in the moment" can haunt you till kingdom come...so I suggest that you think about it, and if you are close to this friend, talk about it candidly...
2007-04-02 16:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by artform.purist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i had a major crush on him I would probably get swept up in the moment. But afterwards I would probably feel used after he's satisfied his curiosity. The friendship would never be the same.
So I would advise to leave well alone
2007-04-05 06:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your attracted to this guy so that is temptation right there. Second you know that he's gay and you have no chance. If you decide, don't think your gonna lay it on him so strong that he will wonder why he's gay in the first place. Don't think good sex will convert him. You already know what you want to do. I just hope it's not to string him out because that won't happen. If you want to do it...go ahead, but just don't fool yourself.
2007-04-02 17:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the records,I can not date a gay person neither can i've them as friends. However if this ever happens, I will say NO! I am not a science project. If he wants to know how it feels like then he has to develope natural feelings for me first before taking off my pants!
2007-04-02 18:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no. I don't think he'd be converted by having sex with me, and I would end up getting hurt. I'd rather never have him than have him and then have that taken away. It would also kind of squick me out to be an "experiment" like that. I would only sleep with someone who wants to sleep with me for ME, not just because I'm a girl and they're curious.
2007-04-02 16:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by pescalle2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You called him a friend, the fact he is gay shouldn't really matter if he is willing, but do you want to lose your friendship? If you try it and he hates it you will both be wondering if it was the sex or the person that was the problem and you can kiss goodbye to your friendship. If its good it may confuse the hell out of you both.
2007-04-02 22:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by scarlets3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him I am sorry but I don't just have sex. It is supposed to be special. Not just something you do to see what all the fuss is about. If you sleep with him, you will most likely develop deeper feelings for him. Sure, he got to see what it is like but you are stuck with a even bigger crush than before.
2007-04-02 16:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by invictus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is how the percentage of African American females contracting HIV/AIDS is on the rise. Either the brother is down low or they've been good friends and just want to see what it's about. Don't do it girl! Resist the urge! I'm not saying that he has HIV/AIDS but what is the purpose of sleeping with him and you know he's not going to want you.
2007-04-02 16:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by hotgirl_rightgirl00 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop fantasising honey. We all seem to crave what we can't have. The unattainable always seems to be so attractive. Unless he gets paralytically drunk, it ain't gonna happen. Just appreciate and value the good friendship you both have, and concentrate on finding yourself a straight guy, who will give you the attention you want. I wish you all the best! :o)
2007-04-02 16:52:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋