Im attracted to an older man, for first time but have no idea how to approach the situation.
2007-04-02 17:59:03 · 11 answers · asked by katy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just talk to him --- he will pick up quickly that you are interested --- i would also suggest that you let him know very clearly --- because if he is anything like me he will be reserved until he is sure you are interested --- i practically need a lady to hit me over the head before i ask them out ---- best wishes
2007-04-02 18:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you want to do this? the age gap might play quite a difference! I say this in regards to ideas, values, and morals because you were raised in different generations, but make sure he is attracted to you as well, there is no need throwing yourself out there and having it not work. Good luck if you pursue this. Just be yourself and treat him the way you want treated.
2007-04-03 01:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little bit? it's 30 years! He'll be old real soon, not much of a future in that. But if you're still interested, hopefully just for a romance, the exact same way you would any other guy. I would show interest in him and flirt and see how he reacts.
2007-04-03 01:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by strawberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flatter him, pay attention to him, be honest with him. My last gf was 30 years younger than me and we got along great. Our only problems we had were the narrow minded bigots who felt that it was necessary to butt in and interfere when we were out together. Be prepared for that but also remember the world is full of haters who like to try to make everyone as miserable as they are.
2007-04-03 01:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy some viagra,ginseng and some extra batteries for his hearing aid then go visit him in his retirment home ask the nuse if you could spend some time alone and then waaaammmmmo the best 30 seconds of your life and possibly the end of his
2007-04-03 01:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by enyx92 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is possible at any age. As long as you two are grown adults, I don't see what the problem is.............If you want him, go for it. Only you have to answer to yourself. Who cares what society thinks or what anyone says. It's your feelings and your life. If he feels the same, more power to you! It's not like you're going to hurt anyone.
2007-04-03 01:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just slip him some viagra? J/K
just tell him how you feel, I'm certain he will be pleased. younger women are always the way to go!!
2007-04-03 01:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try slipping him some viagra....works every time
Im Just Joe
2007-04-03 01:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by just joe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
approach him like he was just another young man. old guys like to feel like their young and for you to do so boost their confidence.
2007-04-03 01:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by da skoolar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the key to a man's heart is through his stomach...
:)
2007-04-03 01:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by Loren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋