okay, someone tell me what's going on. this guy is in my college and he doesn't know me and we never talked. whenever he's with his friends, and he sees me, he points me out to his friends. But, I just ignore him and his friends and just do my thing. after 3 times of coincidently seeing him again, he still points me out to differnent people he talks to. then, one time, he was alone and he gave me this look as if he feels sad. is that a trick? i mean why would you feel sad when you don't know the girl...? then one time saw him again and he sat there looking at me, sort of frustrated and just plain staring at me pissed. the last time I seen him, he was with some other friends and smiling and making his friends look at me again. now, what do you guys think the guy would do next? give up or what? what do you think I should do? I don't know him, but i think his cute, but he is an acquintance.
he's the jock type and not shy at all. but so am I, not shy and I'm like the cheerful cute type
2007-04-02 17:32:33 · 2 answers · asked by yennay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not shy? You have a funny way of showing it?
What would you like him to do? Drag you by the hair back to his cave like a caveman?
The guy LIKES you a LOT.He can't stop telling his friends how much he likes you So, how do you repay his interest in you? By blowing him off with your, "Stay away, creep," looks.
Way to go, Goldilocks!
Listen, in this world, if you want something, you got to make an effort to go get it. If you like this guy, then for goodness sakes, let him know...directly!
If you like the guy or at least think that you could like him, then go up to him when he is not with his friends and ask him if he'd like to meet you for lunch, a snack, a drink, a walk, an actual date even, anything to break the ice with him.
You've got nothing to lose and everything to gain. The great thing about couples is that where one is weak the other can be strong, like if both of you were shy, then the likelihood of the two of you getting together would be slim and none.
Good luck!
2007-04-03 02:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not shy? Ether he is shy and doesn't have it in him to come up to you, or he is crazy and has a habit of staring at girls because of some sort of deep-seeded women issues he has. I mean really not shy? You say all that about this guy and the last thing you add is that he isn't shy? That seems classic shy behavior unless your seeing things? Theres no telling what this guy well do next. Chances are that he won't give up, people in the same school are always there and there not going anywhere so there the people you can keep trying to get. Just go up and talk to this guy and lose some of the mystery.....
2007-04-03 09:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋