Ok, i liked this girl alot and we good until out of nowhere we just broke me and I still like her, it has been like 4 months and i still like her alot! I am going to start seeing her (not dating, just actual seeing) and I want to know what I should do to help get us back. I appreciate all SERIOUS answers.
2007-04-02 17:56:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the only thing you need to do is.....call her and ask her and she will tell you. You remember her phone number right?
2007-04-03 02:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by sharon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "make" someone like you. You can't control another person. What you can do is be the best that you can...and let her see what kind of person you are. If you realize how great and wonderful you truly are, then if she doesn't recognize your greatness, why should you be interested in her? That is, you are what you are. If she can't accept you the way you are, then why would you want to chase after someone who doesn't appreciate you? You will find a woman who will love you for yourself, just the way you are. Be yourself and hope that she has the wisdom to recognize how wonderful you are.
2007-04-03 01:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude I've been in ur boat. And i know this happens a lot in relationships, many times the girl just wants to be freinds. but your best bet is to ask a mutual friend or one of her girl friends to see if she still has any feelings for you. Since you dated her before and ur still not sure if shes into you, start off slow but drop some hints like buy her her favorite candy. her favorite flower, plush animal. if your seeing her again it does mean she enjoys your company and that should mean theres still hope. good luck
2007-04-03 01:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everytime i will break up with my ex-bf and there were 3 times i was breaking up with him, he will wait about 2 weeks. then txt me and ask me to meet him as a friend, just to catch up. we will meet, talk, smile at each other and i leave him feeling that i fell for him all over again. next time we meet, we will start kissing and back together...again. if there is chemistry left,then neither u or her will be able to resist it. if there is no chemistry, better never see her again, it will be easier for u. just the way my ex-bf looked at me, made me want to go back to him. u should be nice, caring and funny when u meet her. tell her u missed her a lot, thought about her a lot and really wanted to meet her. my ex-bf also used to tell me things like: i would hold my cell phone with yr number and my fingure on a dial button, but i didnt know how to call u, what to say. u can try smth like that too.
2007-04-03 01:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by Mystery_gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is tell her how you feel and why she broke up with you?
Tell her you need an answer because you were so in love with her.
Maybe if she shows signs of interest in you ask her if you guys should start again.
There isn't much you can do but ask those questions after all you can't force her to take you back.
2007-04-03 01:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy848 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry for what you are going through, but i would just take
this time to deal with what happen. it a little too soon after
the breakup to get back together on any level. it still fresh
i would take it slow at first. then see how you feel down the
'road, it could be a lot easier to be friend with her. but for
now i would not go there.
2007-04-03 01:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do like old times! flowers letters and stuff. it still works you know! :)
but don't forget why did you broke up and to repare it!
tell her that you like fer a lot and that you are ready to make the efforts to make things better.
and be honest.
cause if you lose her again there is no more chance.
Good luck!
2007-04-03 01:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by Gardenia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what i think that u should do is find small things that she likes and show her like cute affection in small ways and she think its cute and slowy get back with her what was the reason u broke up 2? if it was her then talk to her but give her some roon then when u think u have the chance agina take it. just show her that u like her
2007-04-03 01:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Juliett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something must`ve come up. but your first priority shouldn`t be to get you two back together. its to become her best friend again, and since you phrased it as "out of nowhere" then you probly have no idea why you broke up. find out why, and see if you can fix it.
2007-04-03 01:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by chyeah... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first when you do see her dont be pushy. she had her reasons for breaking up and if she still doesnt wana be with you then you have to respect that. i understand that you said you liked her alot maybe she has changed and you wont like her all that much anymore.
2007-04-03 01:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by Miss K.V. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the reason of the break-up? Well, you should gain her trust back, make her really fall for you. That's as far as i'll go, after that, you know the rest.
2007-04-03 01:00:02 · answer #11 · answered by heavydeezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋