2007-04-02 17:56:02 · 32 answers · asked by lionking_lolhehe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The people whome we love most, never hurt us, because they also know that they are being loved.
See, you feel hurt when-
you are wasting your love on people who are not worth it. Sometimes we think that these are the people who are best for me and I vibe well with them, BUT, they are not able to vibe with you, simple, what ever they say or do, you feel hurt. IT means that your vibrations should be on a same platform.Try to observe.
You love the wrong people.
Wrong means when people are selfish, they are using you, they dont value you or they take you for granted. You get confused.
Analyse them.
You always expect them to behave in same manner as you do. Its not possible. Try thinking rationally and with reasoning.
Be a little practical, emotions dont work always.
Be practical. Love everyone, dont hurt anybody, it doesnt mean that you be ''goody-goody' for everyone.Be assertive and firm in your attitude, behave well with everyone, believe in yourself and trust those whom you love, have faith in them.
Put yourself in their place and then think, you will get the answer as why you felt hurt.
2007-04-02 18:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by manjira 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We accept the love we think we deserve☺☺
2014-05-01 13:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by Michaella Phillips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its because they'll be hoping that no matter what they'll still be loved by the person they hurt. That they can most likely get away with just about anything, because they know that person will still love them even if that person knows they shouldn't love them anymore.
2007-04-02 18:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kern 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy....they know our deepest desires, weaknesses, etc. Therefore they have more power to hurt us. Sometimes it isn't on purpose, but that doesn't make it hurt any less. The alternative is to never trust, never love, never allow someone in b/c you might get hurt. Not a very happy existance. You have to take the good with the bad.
2007-04-02 18:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by famurattla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have learnt that wasting your love on someone who doesn t love you can hurt you the most. The best thing is be bold leave him/her. the longer you try to fix something that you know is broken, the more you will be hurt. Just move on. if they do not appreciate your love then tough luck. You will definitely find someone who will treasure you. The solution is to leave as soon as you can.
2015-11-05 17:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by sitabile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they owned the biggest part of our hearts. Because they are the most important persons to us.
They can hurt us the most because they are the very reason why we can endure the most hurtful stuff.
2007-04-02 18:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
through fact perhaps whilst the folk who you do unlike comparable issues you do no longer take any be conscious through fact there no longer as specific yet whilst the guy who you adore says something that would desire to harm you you're taking greater be conscious and ask your self why. And if your a woman some boys think of that in case you handle females badly your shop coming lower back for them.
2016-10-02 02:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we loved them, we trusted them, and then when our back is turned they break us in half. coming out of the shock, we hurt the most because never in a thousand years we would have thought that someone that we loved has hurt us. that is why, to me the pain is sometimes too intense.
2007-04-02 18:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by metalchik 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The person who makes you the happiest can also make you feel the worst because you have developed a trust with that person. Once that trust is broken then you would be hurt because something you didn't expect to happen has occurred.
2007-04-02 18:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because when we love some one we expect the world from them and when the person does not become what we thought they might be we becomes depressed like ****!!!!!!!!
My advice: Give love to only those who are worth it
And never, ever expect anything from anyone
2007-04-03 19:14:44 · answer #10 · answered by God sent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋