OK, my ex Shannon , was going through a bad time and was thinking of killing herself.....but didn't. the friday b4 she gave me a note say that she didn't love me(ever), (when it was her that asked me)......it was a few days after we got back to school that I learn all of this stuff.......and know she wants us to go back out, should I?????what's stopping her from doing it again, and the werst part is she and I never talked, when something was wrong, she'd get her friends to tell me.......hope you can help?
2007-04-02 04:59:24 · 9 answers · asked by D-fire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she needs to get help for herself before she tries to work on a relationship. I wouldnt date her again
2007-04-02 05:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay from a guy, dude, if you love or still have feelings for her, than you should go back out with her. but knowing that what you know now, you'll have to be stronger when it comes to her emotions, your going to just have to take the hits (emotionally) that come your way, and not say anything. Other times, your going to have to be gentle but firm and assertive when you believe that you and she need to talk. Never allow her friends to tell you her problems, if you can't get away from that after some time....than leave her dude.
2007-04-02 05:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by hopelessly romantic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, don't even go there. I know you kinda want to be there for her because you don't want her to kill herself, but that doesn't mean you have to sit thru another relationship when shes not going to be a part of it (which really, she never was).
I'd stay away from it, regardless of whether you like her like that or not...she runs to her friends in crisis! shes acting like ur just there, not her boyfriend. Don't do it. It will only make you feel worse about yourself or your decision. She will be fine.
2007-04-02 05:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by Breezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds manipulative to me. If she has problems you're going to have to follow her around and beg her to tell you what's wrong. Find someone who won't put all that negative drama into your life. Love is wanting the other person to be happy. She is not mature enough to feel love towards you.
2007-04-02 05:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't want to sound insensitive but.....RUN! this girl has major problems. Plus, there's no communication between the two of you. thats problem enough for disaster. you seem like a nice guy, you can find someone else no prob. Good Luck!
2007-04-02 05:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by Micky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a top notch case of PMS to me!
haha my gf did that to me last week i even lost sleep over it.. she said that she doesnt really love me and wanted to "take a break" and then the next day she was like all over me. I still know that she doesnt love me yet but ill give it time:)
So anyway ya pms causes mood swings and makes them get pissed at ppl (mainly boyfriends)
2007-04-02 05:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by andydrummer2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl seems unstable to me. she's not sure of what she wants and when she finds out she has her little friends tell you. communication is a big issue. if that is something you want, im pretty sure you wont find it with this girl.
2007-04-02 05:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by precious_van_1307 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a lil girl. Get a more growin up gf.
2007-04-02 05:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs professional help. My cousin was a suicide. He told people he would do it and he did.
Tell her parents. Now.
2007-04-02 05:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋