There is this guy I have been talking to, and he invited me over to have sex and when I went over there my friend called to come over too So she did and they had sex and today I have been calling him and asking him why he did that and he said he wanted some and it didnt matter, to him because he wanted me. What should I do just drop him??
2007-04-02 04:41:04 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes and your friend, find friends who have some morals and a bit of loyalty. You're better of without both of them
2007-04-02 04:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This guys a player, and he was trying to play you and your friend. Who has time for that?? Drop him like a bad habit, don't even talk to him anymore- he's trash. And if you're a good friend you'll tell your friend to stay away from the sleezebag too. Be careful with the kind of guys you get involved with.
Hint: If the guy's genuine, he won't be inviting you over for sex after a few phone calls. There's something called "dating" that genuine guys are pretty fond of. Its really a good start to a relationship.
2007-04-02 04:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by LilMiss143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a friend she is! Don't call him because than he is really playing both of you and feels like he is on top of the world. This is basically a fantasy to some guys (not all) to have two ladies or more wanting them. I would say just let him go because what he did is a very foolish thing and he is going to regret doing that. Remember, there are plenty of fishes in the sea and one day you will find a man with better etiquette toward a woman than that.
2007-04-02 04:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Flirtz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop. Do you know how bad that sounds. A guy calls you over for sex. And you think that's a good thing. By his actions that shows you he didn't care one way or the other. He told you he just "wanted some" yes he called you first and he wanted you, but truly he didn't give a dam who he gave it to as like as he got some. Because he said he wanted YOU that gives you hope that he likes you? Don't you care about yourself? Don't you have people who love you at home? Or do you think everyone is against you? Or you just don't listen? Something is missing inside you and for the moment that your having sex with guys or liking guys that takes your troubles away for the moment but when it's done in over your dog meat to these guys they don't care, and this one your talking about proved it to you. You need to stop being your own self victim and a door mat to these guys and start loving you. And it can happen you need to start educating your self Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger has some good books easy to read and right to the point. read ten stupid things women do to mess up their lives. P.S. drop him he is know good....
2007-04-02 04:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely. if he REALLY wanted you he wouldn't have done it with your friend he would have waited for you. So that's a lie, on top of a blatant disregard for how his actions would make you feel. it didnt matter to him but im sure it matters to you (which he didnt even consider), other wise you wouldnt even be thinkin about it. and i doubt if the situation was reversed, you would have screwed his friend, would you? and if you screwed his friend do you think he would stick around after?? this guy sounds like a creep not boyfriend material, if you plan to use HIM for sex and don't care about a relationship, then none of what i said matters, get yours.
2007-04-02 04:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by no use for a name 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy you've "been talking to" invites you over to have sex, and you go? You were being insulted, not flattered, and you should have told him to get lost the minute he asked.
Drop him??? You never had him, and you never will. All you'll get from him is a disease.
2007-04-02 04:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by pattyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him and the friend like a hot potatoe, with no questions asked or answered. Leave them alone, because if you don't you will end up confused just like you are asking this question now. Do what you need to do to focus on your happiness now and the future. Don't Be No Loser.
2007-04-02 04:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by reddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! He's already dissed and dropped you. Close the door behind you when you walk out!
2007-04-02 04:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by M C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DROP HIM!
seriouslly!
i mean come on if he wanted some... and got some from your friend... that only means when he wants some.. while dating yo, he knows he can depend on ur friend to give him some!
drop him! hes not worth you getting hurt!
2007-04-02 04:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by Not Knowing What To Do 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u should be mad with the guy too much, but u should be mad with ur friend cause friends dont do that to friends.. that was disrespectful to u, and the guy.. he's a hoe.. u dont need to be wanting a guy like dat, cause if he did it with ur friend.. he would do it wit just about anyone.
2007-04-02 04:46:23 · answer #10 · answered by Mrz`J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should so drop him! You should drop him like a bad habit!! hehe
Well good luck!
2007-04-02 04:46:01 · answer #11 · answered by Lexy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋