My friend started dating this creep in her first year of college now she's in her second year and he started acting all weird and when he met me he kept staring at my chest(beleive me I am not lacking in that certain are of my body,defininetly not).Then two days later he broke up with her and I quote stated "sorry but I just don't like girls who are so unshapeley"he really is a creep,but did they break up because of me?
2007-04-02 06:43:01 · 18 answers · asked by Isabella B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Please answer because i don't know if i should be on my knees begging for mercy from my friend or moving on and answering creepy guys phone calls.
2007-04-02 06:44:49 · update #1
I am not stupid!!I just worry too much completely different problem!
2007-04-02 06:52:30 · update #2
No, he broke up with her because he's a creep! Don't blame yourself for this creepy guy's actions.
2007-04-02 06:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they broke up because HE'S A CREEP - it is not your fault and has nothing to do with you. If your friend blames you, then she is messed up. You should both be blaming the creep for being so shallow, and ignore him completely.
No, not all guys are that creepy, most guys are fairly decent.
2007-04-02 13:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your fault he ws looking at you so you should have no reason to feel bad. BUT if she is a true friend you should not start answering creepy guys calls that was her boyfriend and she is to be your friend.
also WHY would you want to date someone like him? could you trust creepy and would you really want him as a BF knowing how he was with your "friend"..
I say move on let him go do not answer his calls and if you like your friend be her frined.. there is more to a person then looks, yes we need to have some kind of physical attraction but to date her then to suddenly drop her because of her shape is insane.. her shape was that way when they got together.. I say if you end up with him it wont last he will in time move on to another who he feels is more shaply then you..
Stay with your frined.. and be a friend to her,
2007-04-02 13:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by Tonya R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, most guys aren't that creepy.
Going by what you said it just sounds like the guy is a jerk. If I understand what you've written, and you're suggesting he broke up because you have a better build than her, then yes, he is being pretty shallow.
I wouldn't feel too much responsibility about the situation. If he hadn't seen you he would have been attracted to someone else and dumped your friend.
2007-04-02 13:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your post, you had nothing to do with the breakup. If he broke up with her because she had a small chest, that's not on you...that's his deal. I find no reason for you to feel guilty here. The situation was between them, period.
Are all guys creepy? There are over 3 billion males on the planet...do you seriously think they all behave in the same way? C'mon...use your head.
2007-04-02 13:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you did not do anything provocative or suggestive or intice him in any way then you have no blame...you can not help the way you are built.
If you did any of the above then you might have some fault and should talk to your friend about it.
the guy is a creep to do that for sure
be cool...
2007-04-02 13:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are that way. He seems like he had a problem. Some guys do like girls how have a "little more" so to speak, but usually they go for those type to begin with. And as for him breaking up with her, it wasn't your fault. It's not like you showed your stuff to get his attention.
2007-04-02 13:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eww, why would you ever answer that guys phone calls? What a major jerk! You need to steer clear and if you think you were the cause (which you weren't) then you need to talk with your friend and find out where she thinks you stand...then apologize.
2007-04-02 13:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by rebecca.troyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. just some women seem to draw out the creeps.
2007-04-02 13:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by Doctor Robotnik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she flat chested or don't really have a figure? He might not like her because of that. It might not be you so don't worry. He dont call you does he? If he does then that might be the reason. But if not, don't worry hun.
2007-04-02 13:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by *GlensBayB* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋