2007-04-02 06:40:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you have no physical evidence and proof, then you cannot suspect anything. remeber dont waste your time fighting lies
2007-04-02 06:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by Java Jive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should be able to trust him, unless he's violated that trust before.
Unfortunately, it's a bit of a conundrum. If you have total trust and honesty with each other, you'd know. However, if that were the case, it's very unlikely that he'd have an affair to begin with.
2007-04-02 13:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all what makes you think he is/had an affair? I assume you have already said something to him about it for him to tell you that it hurts him.
2007-04-02 13:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by just being helpful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more details. Why do you think he is having an affair?
2007-04-06 13:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew my ex-husband was having one. I just knew. We worked together and he'd always send me home early despite me offering to help clean up so WE could go home sooner. There was this 18 year old girl who would always come in and just sit for a few hours waiting. When he and I would go out to play darts, she appeared. When I did leave work, she was at her mother's flower shop across the street at 11:30 p.m. "working".
I mean please, it all adds up. I kicked him out and started the divorce. I had to drive home from work past his new place. Her car was always there. I mean really, women's intuition does mean something.
2007-04-02 13:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by chefgrille 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look for clues or you will see them everywhere. Try asking him. If you know your husband you will know that something is going on. And the fact that you are asking this question. Well it is a sign that you think yours is. Good luck and God bless****
2007-04-02 13:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going through this right now... my husbands family was telling me that he with his ex and he kept denying it... i told him " get outta jail free, tell me everything" and he did he admitted to cheating... but now my problem is the ***** he cheated with is now preg... AhHhHhhh
i still don't trust him 100% don't think i ever will. hope things work out for ya better than they did me
2007-04-02 13:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by curiouskitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your husbnad should just leave you and find someone that TRUST him. You bring to much baggage and DRAMA to the table.
2007-04-02 13:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need proof..seeing something out of the norm...like condoms, when you dont use them, money missing, working late...
2007-04-02 13:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it may hurt him but I am sure it also hurts you. Sometimes you have to let it go until you have solid evidience.
2007-04-02 13:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋